Whenever I experience adversity in life I can't let it go unless I have some feedback from loved ones and friends. Usually when someone does me wrong and I'm not in a position to fight back, I leave the situation raging on the inside. I obsess over how I could have handled it differently and how shady the other person is. After some obsessing I start doubting myself and wonder if I am overreacting. As a solution to my angst and self-doubt, I present my woes to a close family member and/or friends to see what they think. Simply the act of telling them brings me immediate relief and eventally I am able to let the angry feelings go. I'd estimate that I experience anywhere from 2-6 truly adverse run-ins with various people over a year long period. Is it wrong or immature for me to be this way?