Is it normal i can't trust the female gender?

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From the title, I thought you were a man...

After reading your story, I get what your saying...

I'm not the most trusting person and when I meet people I'm often wary of them. I'm secretive and sometimes I don't even trust my dearest friends with my feelings.

I've had more bad experiences with the female gender than the male gender, but I've learned that there's no point in blaming those experiences on one whole gender. Each individual is different from the next... However, It does take time to heal from past incidents.

We - men - are just as bad. All people are assholes. Do not trust anyone.

I have trust issues with people in general. I hate dishonesty. There is only a handful of people I let in.

I had a real bad experience awhile ago, so I removed him from my personal life. I won't trust that person ever again.

I can't make bonds with people because they lie about who they are and hide parts of themselves so they look better as humans.

I tried to trace back to where it might have started with me, but I found nothing. It wasn't my family or friends.

Is it only women? Did you have bad relationships with the females in your life? Mom, sisters, friends, etc.

It's possible that you merely have had bad luck meeting women.

It sounds like you just don't want to be a in a relationship. Just date and have sex, and make it clear you don't want a relationship or attachment. If you are up front about what you want, and the other person is on board, nobody gets hurt.

yes really close ones have failed me when i most needed but idk why i have to get stuck on the female part instead of thinking of it as individuals.

I'm not a lesbian or a guy but I've got some trust issues with other women. I had a bad experience with some female friends last year and although I've completely separated myself from them I still have issues. There's a certain manipulative type that is similar to my mom and sister that is über toxic for me. Until I realized it was an awful pattern of me being around a certain type of person I was unwittingly drawn to that type. I believe people(myself included) do this in an effort to fix unresolved issues from childhood. I don't generally have these types of problems with men because my relationship with my father is not like that. There are plenty of males I don't get along with but I'm not drawn to them because they don't remind me of my father. In fact I'm repelled by manipulative and controlling males.