Girls are so odd sometimes.i dont know how to talk and create a frienship with a les.i am les and i really want to have lesbians friends.the problem is that when i go to lesbian bar i dont know what move i should make and talking to girls...i dont want sex i need to have some friends but when you want to talk to a girl at this kind or bar it is always because of sex... lol anyway in greece that is what lesbians believe .they are so dumb and bimbos as paris hilton...

- Wassup, dykes? How's y'all doing? Eating lotsa pussy lately? And howsabout that oil in dem trucks, huh? I know, right? Fuck yeah! I just love me a frikkin truck! Us lesbos all loves us'selves our vehicles just like our vaginas, nice big scary and hairy, right? Get it, ladies...............? Get it? Ha ha? Yeah! Ha........... Ha ha......... Hey......... Where you off to, lezes? Don't go...... I got us some shots...... And lesbian porn playin' in the van............. Swear to God, no dicks or balls. Aw, man.......... Come on! Come back......................... Please?
Or just go for:
- So... Hi, I'm Lezkiss. *smile*
And take it from there. ;)
'Cause maybe she was living in her van after she came out to her parents and they kicked her out of their happy home!! :(
So when you go to a lesbian bar, I suspect 'sex' may come up!
Your best option is those gay/lesbian bars. Be sociable, make friends, get phone numbers (or Internet social contacts) then call them outside of the nightclub. I'm sure many there would love to be friends only.
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Anyway its all about getting out and socializing.
By the way, you seem not to like the dumb bimbo type of girl. What is your preference? Intelligent? Slim? Young? Pretty??
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If you act all excited and friendly and full of life, you may find you get lots of hugs and kisses off these barbie style girls. And even attract some of the more tom boyish girls.
I mean I would have thought its easy with girls, they are usually very 'touchy feely' that love physical contact.
I understand you want friends, but you may need to be one of the girls first ;)
Walk up to a person from behind, grab their upper chest and in your deepest voice say "So.. when did you get them removed?"
It happened to me.... and I was a guy.
The end.
Perhaps you need to try somewhere else? For example, join some LGBT group that arranges social activities. Something which isn't focused on alcohol and sex.
This online magazine may have some info: http://www.avmag.gr/
Really I think you should keep searching, because it seems like there are opportunities out there :)
Most individuals are heterosexuals.
For this reason you NEED to go to THAT only club, or if there are two then go to both.
Plus the Internet is chockers full of sites for meeting anyone with any preference or gender.
All (hetro) men fully respect you like women. That's fully agreed.
Men tend to go to clubs, and they socialize at sporting clubs etc and meet friends of friends and they even use the Internet (I don't know why but I just can't seem to use the Internet chat sites myself, I 'personally' don't trust them, although I HEAR of all these wonderful relationships of people getting together on it)
Anyway, since you are trying to locate the minority group of individuals and THEN trying to find someone in that minority who turns you on and is friendly to you. I suspect it would be extremely difficult.
Go back to THAT club. I'm sure new people also go there all the time too, until they find someone and slowly avoid the area.
Also you MUST know the 'type' you're interested in?
What turns you on? What exactly do you want? Because a 'friend' does NOT need to be gay/les or Bi. Even straight guys (hello) can be your friend :)
You will need to find someone (even a straight person) to accompany you there. If presently you are alone in that regard, then it comes down to your interests. ie If you like netball, join a netball team. If you like shopping, I'm pretty sure most cities have those 'shopping' bus tours. I mean even a tupperware party!
It is hard starting from scratch. ie Zero friends or family?
Just talk with anyone. It may feel a bit crazy at times but its not. When I've been at the shops and someone says, wow its a hot day today (or any passing comment) you could reply yes rather be out partying but I'm new to town and without many friends yet (or something similar). You'll be amazed howmnany people will want to help you.
Its about socializing and confidence. We all just DO IT. Even in fear!