OK if this is real ~ Wait until he goes out and bag up all his stuff from the bedroom and put it in the hall / living room. Have a lock put in the bedroom door and keep the key. When you hear him coming home with a woman, lock him out so that he can go home with her and if she lives with her parents he can sleep on their couch.
Forget about his Italian crap - you are going to fail at University if you continue to let him live with you.
You should give him one month's notice and if he fails to leave then you can call the police to remove him. He's so arrogant that he'd probably think it's a joke and would not fall out with you - as he may need to use you again in the future.
Grow a spine. Get off the couch and put him on it or out the door!!
He'd ruin my sofa bed. But you have a point I let him live with me because up til march I needed a legal gardian to look after me but I'm 18 now and have got my inheritance. I don't now if I can just throw him out like that, he looked after me when my mum died, helped me when his brother dumped me, held my hand when I buried my dad last years he's been there for me since I was 12. Besides has any guy ever held your hand looked into your eyes and called you mia cara its hard enough not to end up in bed with him as it is and since I turned 18 he's been ever more flirty. I need a straight jacket not a spine.
You don't want to end up with someone who sleeps around with other women. Try your very best to look at him as your real brother. He's taking advantage of you and if he's a 'player' he will go through your inheritance before you can blink, then say bye :o(
Ask him to leave and hope he will understand that you need to grow up with a little independence now.
Oh dear, this is an awful position for you. A man will only do what he wants to do, and normally only leave one woman for another. Your best bet would to get him a gf that's prepared to look after him!
Sorry if my life sounds stupid
OK if this is real ~ Wait until he goes out and bag up all his stuff from the bedroom and put it in the hall / living room. Have a lock put in the bedroom door and keep the key. When you hear him coming home with a woman, lock him out so that he can go home with her and if she lives with her parents he can sleep on their couch.
Forget about his Italian crap - you are going to fail at University if you continue to let him live with you.
You should give him one month's notice and if he fails to leave then you can call the police to remove him. He's so arrogant that he'd probably think it's a joke and would not fall out with you - as he may need to use you again in the future.
Grow a spine. Get off the couch and put him on it or out the door!!
Ask him to leave and hope he will understand that you need to grow up with a little independence now.
Oh dear, this is an awful position for you. A man will only do what he wants to do, and normally only leave one woman for another. Your best bet would to get him a gf that's prepared to look after him!