First off, I'm an alright looking girl, however, this is not the point of my story. Sometimes, when I'm out on the street, and one of those moments in which you end up making eye contact accidentally with a random stranger take place, in my case when it's an average looking guy who I imagine never gets laid, looks like he's never had a girlfriend, spends his day at the computer due to his paleness, etc. well... I usually smile. And I smile good, as in it being sincere. Then they look flustered and smile back, shyly, and I think to myself "I just made his day! He'll be thinking about the girl who smiled at him for no reason all day."
Is it normal of me to think that? Or is it just arrogant? ;)
Is it normal of me to think that? Or is it just arrogant? ;)
She let it unfold over the years, always secretly laughing at the guy as his interest GREW in the clues the parrot fed him. He took up metal detecting, GEOLOGY, geography, history, and cartography in his yearning to find the loot.
Eventually feeling guilty and wondering how to resolve THIS once and for all, she came up with the IDEA of taking a nude picture of herself, burying it, and having the PARROT lead him to it. She hoped his disappointment at lootlessness would be tempered by her NUDITY.
Alas, it was not SO.
So yes, while a picture of a really CUTE girl sending a sincere smile his way did make HIM think about her ALL week, what he was thinking WAS whether he could reasonably carry out CAPITAL punishment.
I know this is only one case, but it was the case uppermost in my mind. The upper case, if you will. ;)
o.O
Until I got to know a lot of those guys. Turns out, most of them have had girlfriends or do have girlfriends at some point, don't have that hard of a time getting laid and really aren't "losers" or anything like that, some of them are but most of them are just normal guys that get some pussy but don't run around bragging about it or acting like they conquered Mount Everest on a perpetual basis because they got a few good nights of tang.
I understand the thought behind it and I guess it's cool and all, but don't judge a book by it's cover, now. Smiling at anyone can make their day, people don't smile enough.
Either ways, I think that it's a nice thing to do. However, you shouldn't do it to just virgins. I guarantee you that even non-virgins would appreciate a smile.
I hope none of them are obsessive rapists.
I think you do sound slightly full of yourself, but whatever.
but i get what you mean, im just a lil bitter since im still very in touch with my geeky, nerd roots
That does come across as arrogant. The fact that you do it in the hopes that they'll be thinking fondly of you all day is also a bit ego-orientated rather than you simply being friendly.
It's a condescending type of pity.
First, it's not at all a matter of them being *attracted* to me. In my mind it's more about the creation of an image, like a picture you bring home after a long day. It's just a brief and sweet moment in our days. Also, I don't "do it in the hopes of" anything, it just happens, I don't decide to do it *because* the man fits such description.
I still accept and respect your opinion, though.
But you put as the title "is it normal I make a nerdy guy's day". You're assuming your smile makes their day, and they'll be thinking about you all day because you smiled at them.
When I smile at someone in the street and they smile back, I think "That was nice and friendly" then carry on. You think "I just made that guys day! They'll be thinking about me smiling at them all day!" because they're nerdy and look to you like they don't have sex. So because you think they're nerdy and don't have sex, they'll dwell on that one smile from you all day? Like it's the best thing to happen to them all day? The highlight of that 24 hours - your smile.
That's pretty much the part that comes across as arrogant and condescending.
That is all......oh and you're really lame...meowwwwowow!
If only she hadn't laundered them, then she would've made my month!
God I love my hot cousin.