Is it normal I moved out my dads and he still calls to blame me ?

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Your Dad needs to either find a life, another woman, or some combination of the two because he obviously doesn't have enough to do after work if he has the time to be bothering you. He sounds like a very confused man and it's possible that you're the only person who entertains his communicating of stupidities about his personal life. Tell him to make friends.

My Dad used to do the same thing to me (except with the blame more directed towards my Mother) and I told him to take that up with his ex-wife because I'm too busy to put up with it.

Wow he has issues. The phrase "I'm sorry you're always mad at me..." is an oxymoron. He's sorry that YOU are mad at HIM?! Get real! He's acting like a big baby. Give him the cold shoulder for a while and stop responding to his needy texts. Just try to focus on getting stabilized on your own, that's all you should be worried about right now. Your number one priority should be to build you a cash nest egg, (get a very good safe), and stay away from taking out loans. All this would be after you find stable work, of course.

He's a big boy, he should be able to handle his own issues.

This sounds like my mom with my sister. She blames my sister for every loss in. her life

Perhaps you need to consider blocking him for a while.

I know it's your Dad but if he's only trying to text you to pick fights, perhaps now's a time for a break.

Wolf??

Sorry about your situation. That's so unfair and cruel of him. I'm not sure what the answer is I do know that you need to hold firm within yourself about who you are though and always remember that this is not you , it's your dad.
Maybe if one day you can find the strength to just tell him it's him , his bs . and your not taking it anymore or your cutting him off , he might wake up to himself.
Atleast then if you do cut him off , he knows the solution and the reason , and that it's up to him from there to wake up to himself or lose you.
Maybe even write him a letter about it if it's too hard to confront , then cut him off.
Just thoughts , good luck anyway.

Next time be frank. Say "I'm not mad at you, that's why I haven't been calling, you must be mad at me clearly because you always call me sounding upset. What's wrong?"

Ahh well , sorry to hear it. Well if you cut him out then he knows why , why not block his calls or change your number. He needs you I think that's why he isn't leaving you alone. I'd be blocking him myself, changing my number or whatever it takes , taking a year or two out .

allistalla i know thats you. why are your IIN questions so easy to figure out that its you? (no not normal i say punch him in the face)

"i love you dad but you have to change, i am changing too in different ways" he sounds desperate and either substance abusing or brain problems, you tho are young and everything will go the way you want it, just wanting the right thing for yourself will bring it, if he upsets you verbally tell him on the spot "you have to change dad i told you i cant be around you if you upset me" and mean it the world is yours