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Is it normal i shower with my sister?
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My sister nearly drowned twice when she was a kid, and so she's always been very hydrophobic. she hates to touch water at all, and won't even think about swimming. so i've always been her shower partner, showering with her to make sure the water doesn't make her cry or panic. the worst part for her is getting her head wet, that's when it's most important for me to be there with her. sometimes she just can't go on and moves to the side and starts crying to i have to turn the water off and console her. hugging her close while we're naked is very awkward but i have to be there for her. then when she's ready to continue i turn the water back on and help her finish. when my sister moved out, i went with her because she still needed my help. i'll continue doing this until she starts to live with someone else who understands her problem and will help her. if i wasn't with her, she wouldn't shower at all or if she tried she would panic and get out if no one was there with her. she's gotten over easy things like washing her hands or getting them wet in the sink but anything much more than that is a problem. i hate seeing my sister have so much trouble with something like this but i'll do anything to help her.

and she is NOT a freak or handicapped, she just has this phobia. in everything else she is normal, smart, fun, and great in every way. i'm basically freeloading off her at the moment because she has a good job and i'm living with her and don't do anything, i'm not proud of it but she's happy to support me. we spend a lot of time together and are as good friends as we could be. she needs help with some things most people wouldn't need help with, but i love her so being there for her is the least i can do even if it's awkward. but it's okay, if we ever were modest with each other we definitely aren't any more. the important thing to me is that i can do something for her so i will. is this situation normal?
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If you are both comfortable, I say keep helping her. Just because you are naked doesn't make it sexual. She should try getting over the phobia though. Maybe by being in the bathroom with her with the curtain open and slowly working your way to having it close and then out of the bathroom after she is comfortable. She is able to turn the water off at anytime. I am not a professional, so a psychologist might have a better way.
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you couldnt wear a bathing suit or something? being naked together is definately akward!
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I don't see any problems, you are helping your sister. Showering naked is normal.
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Wow, people are being a bit weird over this. It isn't incest, because it isn't sexual. Whether you are her brother or sister doesn't matter either. You're being there for you sister, and that's a good thing.

Also, how would the poster not being naked be less weird? Coz then they'd be wearing a swimsuit in the shower, have to shower twice every day, and still be seeing the sister naked anyway. Think things through before you post, guys!
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wise
It's normal to be there for a sibling, but her phobia would be "not normal" because it's in the way of her daily functions. Let's be real, you're not always going to be there. You might go on vacation or something, then what? Why don't you just bring her to a therapist that will help her overcome her fear and function independently :)
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CEE
wow she needs to get over her fear
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Are you a brother or sister?
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She should probably learn to cope with this on her own.

And you shouldn't be naked, also. As long as you're not her brother, I think it's okay, but still a little weird.
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yes, why aren't you wearing a raincoat?
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I really hope you're a girl.

If not, then you're the one being weird not her.
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msplace
I think this is nice, but she should get some help. Also, u should wear a bathing suit
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Are you planing on living off your sister and showering with her for the rest of your life? You sound like a creep and your sister must be a few sandwiches short of a picnic if she is scared of the shower
You sound like a pair of weirdos to me
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and if u are a male, then yes u r a creep. i believev ur sister is gonna be traumatized 4 two reasons now! because of water and becasue she saw her bro's dick!
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incest.. dot dot dot dot dot.
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carolann
Your sister has rabies?
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what? rabies? wat does that have to do wuth anything? i laughed when i read ur comment?
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Showering with your sister in this situation is normal. There's no reason, however, for you to be naked. YOU can wear a bathing suit. If you're her brother, you NEED to, always- brother and sister showering together naked is never normal. If you're her sister, that's not as bad. I think it's awesome that you two support each other so well and she is probably very grateful to you for being so patient with her phobia. It must be really difficult for both of you.
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He is obviously a guy , for one reason only, have you ever met a girl who feels acqard hugging a girl of any kind?? Didn't think so, and most sisters 1) would think it was rlly weird, 2) she wouldn't be embarrassed to tell people
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i have a feeling this is another incest story and you are just trying to cover it up have fun with your incest sex.
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JerseyGirl0128
that is pretty much incest. and, why the hel wouldnt u wear a baiting suit?
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wait are you a male or a female. i couldnt read the rest it was too long!
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Bullshit. If you were helping with a phobia there would be no reason for you to be naked. Creep.
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Niiceee
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