Is it normal members at what age did you lose your virginity?

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27... to my wife.

14. It totally sucked. Shoulda waited. I think 21 is rad and shows....something...maturity. Maybe? More power to you. I ruined my life (well not ruined) by letting my girl parts make too many decisions too early on, due to insecurity and a need to feel accepted. You go smart girl.

When you're really ugly, like I am, then its easy to remain a virgin.

You really dont even have to try at all, it just takes care of itself somehow.

14, or 15 if we're only counting consensual sex.

This come as a shock to many (sarcasm) but I'm still a virgin.

Why is this not a poll?

19 and I'm male

To some guys, 21 and a virgin is extremely appealing since most men have this fantasy to have sex with a virgin. So it doesn't decrease your odds with the opposite sex.

I know this sounds like a cliché, but you should only have sex with someone when you feel ready for it. Don't compare yourself to others.

Hell, even if you want to compare, I know plenty of people your age who didn't have sex at that age. They just don't speak out about it as much as non-virgins do. That's why you might feel that you're a little old to be a virgin.

20 and I'm female :)

12 to my hand

I am a virgin, sir.

I'll probably die a virgin too.

18. Not because I was waiting until legal age, just because it happened to turn out that way. I still wish I waited even longer because the guy I lost it to was a complete ass.

I was 15. Most guys I know don't really care. I don't know many guys in my church that care either. I know a girl who is marrying a guy who has been a member his whole life and the girl is a recent convert. The guy has been a devout Mormon his entire life and the girl... had sex with over 35 people. That doesn't seem to matter to him, nor does it seem to matter to most guys if they love the girl and believe that she is responsible and good for them.

15 and virgin!

I lost it when I was 13 to a neighbor boy who was 15 and my parents went on a cruise and his mom was a flight attendant so she was gone and his dad was a business guy so he was gone somewhere so we spent the weekend together and had sex :)

I'm 17 and still a virgin

i just lost mine yesterday, no lie. i'm 17.

Oh and im 20

Virgin. Had oppurtunities to change that, though, but the women weren't exactly people someone would want to have.

i popped my cherry at 8 years old i am now 9 and preggers and due august 8th

15... it really depends on the guy... if he is religious, he will more than likely love it. if he is sensitive, he will love it... otherwise he will probably just set a goal to take your virginity... and thats all it will mean to him...

15.

I was 19- my boyfriend had lost his at 14. He said it didn't make that much difference to him that i was a virgin and we are still together 3 years later.

I was 10. The neighbor boy who was 14 showed me all about it.

I'm in my late teens and I'm still a virgin. I don't know about my friends sex lives or lack of.

I was 18, but I wasn't ready. I wish I had waited a little longer. I know people your age who are still virgins so it's nothing to worry about.

I have my cinca latinas!

13. I wanted to fit in and grow up too fast. I don't regret it because those awful decisions helped me become who I am today.

I do think being a virgin at the age of 21 can be attractive to some. You might attract someone that respects you more than just a sex partner, maybe another virgin (which I'd imagine would be fun experimenting that new world as two newcomers :P ). Even for someone with experience, being with a virgin could be meaningful or even fun. I think it varies from man to man, but there is a little of everything out there. Some men are afraid of being with virgins because they think it will be sloppy or boring or scary. But if you use your instinct or if you explore sexual knowledge, you can swift that idea around and be just as pleasurable as another with experience.

Depends on what you want with your virginity: do you want to lose it, do you want to keep it? But please, just don't depend your dignity on it: virginity and dignity are two totally different things.

i waited till i was 18 and its still the person i have sex with hes my only partner

i was 11

I lost mine when I was 20 and now I am 26 and married to the guy that exposed me.

19, I'm still with the same guy, though I wish I waited longer (it was exactly two weeks into the relationship) I was the only virgin out of all my female friends and wanted to get sex out of the way so that I didn't feel left out, plus I was treated as a child because of it. I know how ridiculous that sounds now.

Virgin, i dont really get the deal if the opposite is a virgin or not. Heck if anything id find someone who knows what there 'doing', not saying go find a whore, but just be sure there is a connection.

well you have sex too early you become a jerk
too late you're a dork

just have a right time for yourself, when you think you're ready then IT'S TIME!

I didn't have a choice, but I was 7. When I consider the time I lost it by my choice I was 18.

I'm coming down from the Methylenedioxyethylamphetamine(MDEA, Eve, MDE) high! The comedown is crappy. MDxx chemicals kill far fewer people per year than alcohol. The comedown is shit. Yeah, i'm a virgin, I'm "that loser" who looks good bla bla bla. People always laugh it up at people like me when I was smarter. How do you like me now? Virgin and not a dork. I'm the only one that can brag about getting real Methylenedioxyethylamphetamine, which I choose over MDMA. Sometimes I mix 'em. Never drink booze while on E! I've been awake for so long, it's not even funny! (●)_(●)

16.

15. I have no regrets, but I was ready and I was with the right person, so I was able to enjoy it. It's perfectly normal for you to be a virgin, it's your body, and your decision.

When I was fourteen I finally learned about sex (yeah I'm pretty late ^^). I read a lot about the topic over the years and had my phase of "finding myself" till I was 17 - then I kissed for the first time.

At the age of 19 I had the first time sex (a guy who lived across my apartment ^^) I knew what I wanted and that was the most important thing.

Personally I didn't want a relationship but enjoy it with a man I trust and for me it was perfect. Plus I actually never really carred about being a virgin, I also didn't tell him, why should I?

The whole virgin thing is a big lie, when you are ready you are and then it will be perfect.

(By the way a clue is that you imagine yourself doing it with a person you know or one you have a relationship with.)

For the part is it appealing: Be confident about yourself no matter what and you will ALWAYS be appealing, no matter what you look like!

i lost mine at 18.

16 but it wasn't consensual..

depends on what you are referring to as virginity. there are a lot of virginity issues when it comes to sex. if you are referring to the normal penis in vagina then i was 18 but i lost other virginity concerning sex very, very, young. i guess about 8. even thought i did not go thru puberty till i was about 11 or 12, i was sexually turned on much, much, younger.

Lol i am 17 and i have chosen not to have sex..the smart choice especially when your still in highschool

14 and the girl I was with was at a different school, sone Roman Catholic school near by. Both our parents were home so we decided to do it on the playground structure (no one around, it was Saturday)..it was great untill the minister was leaving the building and informed her that he would tell her parents and pray for her. That was the last I saw of her...

I'm sensitive so I don't just want to get someones virjity or that crap I want to do it for love ps the signs work I'm sensitive shy and a cancer

all the previous comments really make me worry about society! an people.

I was 15 (way too young) and my boyfriend said he was 14 (not with me) and he is haunted by it. He was totally ashamed when he took that girls virginity and his own as well. He hates even to think about it. But I would say 18 is a good age.

i lost mine at 11 ;)

I was fifteen the first time I had sex, and I do not regret it. Because of this, I now have a beautiful baby boy who is three, and I would never regret him or the choices I made.

14 ^_^

I was 16. And it was awful. I thought it would get better but it didn't because he was shit in bed.
I finally started really enjoying sex a year later with my second partner.

I was 15. I was with the guy for 4 years and 10 months.

I was 14! Female.

I was 14, im 15 now and im still with that guy :)

Lost mine at 16, don't regret it at all I love him very much and am still with him:)

I was 16. I never saw him again his name was Joe. xxx

I was 16... granted it wasn't consensual, but I wish it would have been later in life. It created alot of problems that I didn't yet know how to handle; being so young and naive. I applaud you! :) You'll more than likely know when the times right.

16 and she was super great for the next 2 years we dated.

12/13 at school after a soccer game in the shower along with 6/7 other boys on a dare with the coach out on the gym floor, why we didn't get caught I'LL never know

12 while visiting some cousins, I was forced too by them.

If you waited till 21 it means you are not easy and some guys have a thing for virgins. Some guys like a challenge.

I had sex at 15 years old and I made sure it was with the right guy, I made sure he really loved me and if we did it it wouldn't be meaningless. he was very carefully and slow with me, he didn't rush me and guys actually love virgins so dont worry

I was 12 but My girlfriend was 13 she had her period and wanned to se if it felt the same ( she had sex 1time before) but if i didnt had sex that time she Would leave me she Said! And now we have sex every night:)

13& I feel that its good to have sex while your hormones are raging, it's the best time!! hey, it's better than sitting at home watching porn:b

I lost mine at 10. Lol had sex almost all the time after that until i was 15. Now im 20 and i havnt had sex for 5 years. No kids no HIV/AIDS.

14 :)

Im a guy and i lost it at 14 to my cousin who was 13