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I'm 25 and have been married a year. Shortly after our wedding my husband started giving me real spankings, he takes me into our bed room and takes my pants off and then bust my bottom, until i'm red. Sometimes he does it in the car or in the bathroom at church. So is it normal that my husband spanks me?
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It is more normal than you think. It is O.K. as long as you are agreeable and dont feel you are being abused. Your husband may be practising Domestic Discipline( and you dont have to be a religeous fanatic to do this) or he may get erotic pleasure out of it. Maybe some of both is the case. A spanking hurts but for many women afterward they are aroused. A really hard disciplinary spanking is different from an erotic spanking but the erotic ones hurt too.A disciplinary relationship with your husband as the boss of you can bring harmony to a marriage if you are like minded.IF not it may feel like abuse. Some husbands dont spank so much as to punish you for a specific thing. Some husbands spank just to remind you whose boss and to keep you sweet and not bitchy towards him- to maintain respect. Most men who spank do it for a combination of all these reasons. Some men spank because their wives have asked them too. I for one feel more protected and cared for because my husband spanks me . Of course alot of people dont engage in this and thats fine too. Whatever feels right and works for the two of you is normal regarding this subject. However he should not spank you if your are absolutely against it. He may however eventually leave the marriage and seek a like minded women if so.
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yes, its not a big issue.many husband spank his loving wife as a punishment that she make.
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Either explicitly or implicitly, you've asked several questions. Below is a brief synopsis.

1. Is normal for a husband to spank his wife?

Czop is right; it happens more often an many people suspect.

Not so many generations ago, it was almost an expectation in marriage. Everyone pretty much knew it happened.

If the didn't already know about it, brides to be were often told by their mothers that they could, and most likely would, be spanked at some point by their husbands. Back then, it wasn't a big deal since most women grew up being spanked.

2. Is it normal for a 25-year-old woman to be spanked?

It depends on the culture and circumstances. Age is normally far less a factor when it comes to spanking women than is her behavior.

If a young woman is living at home, perhaps going to college or after her divorce, it is not unheard of for a 20-something daughter to be spanked by her mother. This really is more common than a lot of people realize!

Here's why women still get spanked. Unlike men, women don't reach an age when spanking them is no longer effective. Although it is seldom talked about, even grandmothers sometimes get spankings!

3. Do husbands usually spank in the bedroom?

That seems to be the most common, perhaps even logical, place. According to one unofficial estimate, about three quarters of wives have sex with their husbands shortly after being spanked. Whether it's because submissive wive are in the bedroom with their clothes off is a matter of conjecture.

Couches are another popular location.

4. Is it usually done on a woman's bare bottom?

Yes. Women tend to agree that, once they get through any initial awkwardness, getting it on a bare bottom seems more natural. In many instances, the woman expects it. Nor is it unheard of, especially if she knows she deserves what's coming, for a woman to bare her own bottom without being told before being disciplined.

5. It is it normal for a woman's bottom to be red after a spanking?

Yes. In addition to being reddish, a well-spanked bottom usually feels a little firmer than normal to the touch.

6. Is it common for husbands to spank their wives someplace other than at home?

This is less common. While I spanked my wife a few times in a car when we were dating and shortly after we married, I personally don't know of any wives spanked at church.

At the same time, I am aware that some denominations encourage the practice of wife spanking. As a result, it would not surprise me to learn of wives in a particular congregation occasionally taken a backroom and spanked for gossiping or some similar offense.
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I have been married for a very long time, and I would give anything to have my wife spank me like that. I am not a wacko or a sicko but I know it would do us a world of good.
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Yes, absolutely normal in my opinion. My hubby spanks me regularly for things like being late or forgetting something. If the situation calls for it he'll use a slipper and that soon wipes the smile off my face. I always get a cuddle afterwards though.

Although if it's not your nature to submit then I imagine it would annoy you.
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Perfectly normal and wonderful. I hope my bf does this to me if we get married. :)
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And why the hell does he do this?
you let him!?!?
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