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Is it normal my wife wont let me cum in her mouth
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Ok so i was wondering if its normal for my wife to refuse to let me cum in her mouth after a blowjob. She always said when we got together 8 years ago that she would never suck my cock as a previous boyfriend raped her and part of the rape was making her suck his dick never mentioned if he made her swallor but seeing how he kept saying if you loved me you would let me i guessing same was said for swallowing. The thing is she will now suck me off but as soon as i say anything bout cumming or she feels my cock start to pulse she takes it out her mouth. I know it may be a small thing but i would love to cum in her mouth like i do her ass and pussy is her/my behaviour normal and how do i get her to let me cum in her mouth i told her she can spit it out for all i care but she wont let it happen
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Uh, yeah it's normal. People have varying sexual limits, it's a reflection of your respect for her if you don't pressure her into doing something she doesn't want to do. Whining like a bitch because she won't gulp down your semen is sad, and frankly disrespectful.

In fact it's even more understandable if she associates cumming in her mouth with her violent sexual assault. Fucking hell...
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ok i only posted here as i dont know of anywhere else i could ask if it is normal. In no way am i complaining the things she does do are amazing i just was courious if after this long it was still the reminder of what happened or if now its just a fear of not being able to remember how it feels. If i was gonna disrespect her feelings i would not warn her im close to cumming and shoot in her mouth regardless.
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Well the only person who can answer WHY she doesn't want you to cum in her mouth is her, isn't it? We can only speculate, as can you. It's normal for people to have sexual limits, interests and disinterests, preferences and fears. That's as much of a definitive answer anyone on this site can provide you with, unless your wife turns up on IIN :)

So if you want an answer with greater clarity, you'll have to ask your wife. If she's unwilling to explain, then I suggest you accept it and move on.
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You sound quite selfish. She's been straight about her limits. Think of your wife's feelings and respect them.
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ok i only posted here as i dont know of anywhere else i could ask if it is normal. In no way am i complaining the things she does do are amazing i just was courious if after this long it was still the reminder of what happened or if now its just a fear of not being able to remember how it feels. If i was gonna disrespect her feelings i would not warn her im close to cumming and shoot in her mouth regardless.
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Well, there's cleary one solution, Rape her in the mouth. Haha jk yeah, what mando said. And just be happy you're married and still getting BJs.....dick.
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Your desire does not outweigh her trauma. Have some respect and be happy that you're getting head. If that's all the further her assault has affected your sex life, you should be grateful.

Some rape victims have trouble with any kind of intimacy or even being near the gender that raped them afterwards. If your only problem is her not wanting to swallow, you're lucky.
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ok i only posted here as i dont know of anywhere else i could ask if it is normal. In no way am i complaining the things she does do are amazing i just was courious if after this long it was still the reminder of what happened or if now its just a fear of not being able to remember how it feels. If i was gonna disrespect her feelings i would not warn her im close to cumming and shoot in her mouth regardless.
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Yeah, it's pretty normal unfortunately. :/ Trauma is a really weird thing, it effects everyone differently and for different amounts of time. Anything similar to the traumatic event can be a trigger to the traumatized person, it doesn't really matter who you are or how safe you make them feel, it's a psychological response to what, to the mind was a very scarring event.

It's good that you do respect her feelings, it's difficult to understand trauma from the outside. It honestly is something that if you haven't gone through, you really have no idea.
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she doesnt want to be a quitter aka spitter
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Let her know that swallowing can prevent breast cancer and cure depression.
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If you've been w/ me for 8 years I'd let you cum in my mouth ;p
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Sad but normal.
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Trade her in for a newer model. I'm not in the fat women but fat women are quicker to suck a dick.

So you Wife must be really pretty. The good looking ones think they don't have to do that. The fat ugly ones will suck a dick up till they hick up
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I worship at her pussy and ass I love to be in one of them or have her pussy on my face.
She does suck my dick just won't let me cum in her mouth or on her face. So I cum on her tits.
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I voted " YES "
Reason being, my wife was raised very religiously. And as a result, automatically believed it was taboo. I on the other hand was also raised the same, but with a high sex drive and as a result of this watched a substantial amount of porn. After 13yrs of marrage, and lots of request (to put it mildy), my wife surprised me with a bj to completion on Monday/december/2012. It was going to be for my birthday actually, but since they where going to go and house sit for 3 days, she decided to give me my present early. I went to fetch them today. Whilst they where there, we texted and discussed her decision. She did'nt swallow, but spat it out in a towel. She found the texture from previous bj's that ended in a handjob, to be like mucous. As a result she did'nt know what to expect. I would recond that the refusals range from this to that and on and on. But knowing it was something I really wanted, she wanted to make me happy. She was surprised to find it," actually not that bad and kinda schweeeet". We've been apart for these 3 days, and the anticapation for both of us has made us both crazeeee as hell for tonight. Would she have done it on her own, NO!. It happened as a direct result of me requesting it on numerous occassions. I've had a few "lovers" in my life, and she is the first to allow/accept a load from me.
Ladies, if you do this one thing for your hudband, it shows him the extent of your love for him. I love my wife more deeply now, cause I know it was a "big deal" for her to do this.
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I've been with my wife 10 years and I've got to come in her mouth twice and that was within the first six months of dating. After that it went from hero to zero. There should be a website where you can find women who like to smoke the pole and have cum in their mouth.

I know lady that can't cum Unless she has a big penis in her mouth. That's the only way she can get off
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She swallowed my cum!
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Respect her boundaries. It's obviously hard enough (no pun intended) for her to go as far as she has , considering what happened to her. Take her situation and her desires into consideration. Ever ask her what, if anything, turns her in about sucking?
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ok i posted only posted to findout if its normal that we been together 8 years and she still says no to me cumming in her mouth and hoped maybe someone could say if its the reminder of the attack or she has concerns about taste. i was not looking for a barage of abuse if i was selfish i would tell her it bothers me when she asks but i say no. dispite the fact i want to get enjoy her sucking my dick and not worry if im about to cum or not but fuck it clearly for hoping she would oneday trust me enough to know im not forcing her to taste my cum but really would like her to make me a selfish uncaring pig so im off to become a monk
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Just tell her to swallow, If she loves you, she should want to make you happy, its not an unreasonable request.
its not poison, I hate women who refuse to be flexable about there husbands needs. My wife does things for me because she knows thats what makes me happy, and vice versa.
don't waste your time with someone who does not want to make you happy.
ejaculating in a womans mouth, and she swallows is awsome, your missing out and thats not right. Get her best friend to suck you off.
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