Is it normal: Nice Guys Finish Last

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Girls prefer being with someone who isnt a "Good guy". Its pretty anoying because I have to hear them complain everytime the person they pick cheat on them and then they blame the whole gender for their choice. Fact is good guys only get the girl if they are handsome and girls will only go for looks while they try to say they go for personality when all you have to do is look in town to see that this "I go for personality" speech is a lie.

Well I don't know ure situation but I do prefer personality I've dated interesting men One of em he was nice but it felt like I would be dating a chick Some girls don't wanna date a dude with a vagina but I wouldn't beat myself up I suffer the same situation nice girls finish last. I'm always the girl next door or settle as just friends And they whine to me About their failed relationships and even. Try the rebound on me just make sure u stick up for u and know u and NEVER SETTLE 4 LESS

In our sick and twisted society, liars get ahead by bending the truth and blaming faults on others avoiding the consequences. Nice guys don't, so they get screwed over. As for girls, they enjoy the somewhat 'thrill' or 'rush' of doing something bad ergo they like bad boys.

Hey dude get yo self a Real Doll! No mess No Fuss just pure silicone heaven yo.

Nice guys do finish last. End of story.

There's nice and then there's too nice. Make sure you're setting healthy boundaries with others & not letting them take advantage of you. Plus, standing up for yourself & what you think is right will make others respect you. I'm not sure if you do these things or not but I would think that that's what would keep someone from getting ahead, not the being nice part.

I hear leftovers are the shit.

Its not completely true. The truth in fact is that nice guys don't create attraction in a female. A lot of woman want a nice guy, because they get hurt by bad boys or players. Unfortunately, being nice doesn't create that initial attraction that a wowan has to feel towards you in order to see you as a potential partner. Attraction can be created in many ways. Most important of them all is confidence, yes much more important than looks. There is a difference between a good looking guy and an attractive guy. An average looking guy with confidence will have much better results than a great looking shy/nice guy. I recommend you read or listen to: neil strauss - the game it is an eye opener and the single most useful thing i have ever bought in my life... Also, with confidence you can "fake it till you make it" get some info on body language. Woman read body language 10times better than we do.

No, this isn't true, and I'm really kind of sick of nice guys saying this. If you're a nice guy, all you have to do is wait and be patient for the right girl/situation to come along. Beauty is relative, and if women don't find you attractive now, get over it and wait, and while you're waiting, continue to be a good guy. I have the same problem, really, but I realized a few years ago that goodness is more important than anything, because if you do finally get the girl of your dreams or whatever, you'll be prepared to have a not-crappy relationship, unlike all the "badasses" out there.
p.s. Take it from a girl, badass guys are annoying; they always think you're in love with them.

Personally i prefer nice guys x

If the girl is a stupid one then you have to treat her like shyt sumtimes for her to know you care...If shes a good girl then......oh thats right there are NO good girls...So treat them all like shyt...next class we'll teach yu how to treat WOMEN....

Saying there's no good girls out there is like saying there's no good guys! Blanket statement & untrue. From my own experience, the whole going for a 'bad' guy or a 'nice' guy depends on the maturity level that the girl is at.

I don't think that's always true. If you mean those guys who have no pride, no shame and no fucking backbone then yeah, they do finish last.

In truth, you have to have a flaw. That's how it goes. Only then people see the good in you. Otherwise it's a little creepy. Drink milk without a glass or something or drive fast. Have a manly flaw, they will complain about it but once you change it. You lose all their respect for some reason.