I been wondering this I dated this one girl 3 years, another 2 years, another one 5 and the last one 3. (By the way i dated more girls than that just longest ones i had) Out of all the girls I dated never had sex with any of them. I was wondering about it so I looked up my exs called or email them. They all said about the same they didn't know why. It ain't like you didn't try it just didn't happen...... So what y'all think?