I read the post of the lady with a fiance whoms ass smell bad and I could concurr to the fullest. My man has been told over and over again wash your ass. He has a big ass too. I was like "bay please you can't just use your fingers and soap to wash your ass" you have to scrub with a towel". Over and over again. Then he has the nerve to sleep in the nude. I am losing my goddamn mind. He is not listnening to me. He always say, "bay you are just hypersensitive my ass doesn't stink". "I am like WHAT, WHAT"!!! I just want to knock some sense into him when he says that. Because YES YOUR ASS DOES STINK!!!! I approched the issue very politely and respectful but to no avail. Now I am gettin frustrated...I can't talk to no one about this because I don't want to embarrass him or myself. If he was to be like bay(talking to me) your nable, or vagina,or toes stink,i would do flying summersaults to the shower and scrub..why can't he see that I am serious. He is the sweetest guy and he is their for my kids...but sometimes the kids can't even cuddle with me because his area in the bed may have smells and skiddies. I have to wash sheets every goddamn morning. I am not a phobic type person, or a person who will say harsh things but I've already said it nicely and it went from nice to a tad bit firmer like "Honey please use this towel and scrub back their". He will be like" for what I already washed". "I'm like no bay use a towel" he says "a towel is overrated". Help me...what to do,what to do??????