So I've known this guy for almost 5 years and our relationship is very complicated from beings friends ,to dating but never full blown relationship. He has never voiced his emotions or anything tht goes on in his personal life certain things I've found out when i go to his house. His father recently died and even though it was over our school break he hasn't been very outspoken about it. I honestly wanna be there for him but i just dont know how he feels. He told me tht he actually wanted to be together but i found tht he texted other girls when i thought we were dating. We're talking again and i just dont know how to feel we're young and i don't wanna feel like im forcing him to be in a relationship. I do certain things to get a reaction out of him and its little to nothing or not what i want. It's driving me mad he's like a puzzle and its so hard to figure him out. I know he genuine but i want him to show it. It doesn't matter to me if we don't go out i just want him to be comfortable speaking about certain things.