I've been seeing this older guy. I'm 19 he is 35 . not married nor kids. I've spent nights with him and am always at his house. We have not done anything sexual. Yet at the moment we are on a "break" because he is going thro his depression.and he also has sleep issues and never sleeps so as you see he's pretty stressed yet when we talk and when I'm over he is affionate and calls me cute pet names. I've told him I planed to tell my mom about him and he said to please stop pushing the issue of us being together.And give him time to get better. So what does this mean and why is he messing up my emotions?