First off, I was adopted when I was younger from a family where the father was abusive. Then, a few years after I was adopted my adoptive father left my family for a woman he was cheating on my mom with. Also, recently I've been having trouble with men and relationships most particuarly with regards to the fact that I perceive men as only wanting sex. Which I know is not true about all men, but I guess I need proof or something. Is it normal that I am having these issues? I feel bad because I'm thinking that all the "good" guys out there are taken or gay or (unfortunately) just someone I am not attracted to based on looks or some unfortunate personality attribute. And all the ones that are left over are (the way I'm seeing it right now) pig-headed assholes who only think about the next time they are going to get laid and don't want a meaningful relationship with anyone except their couches. And yes, I realize that was very cynical.