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Is it normal that I am obsessed with my partner?
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Just curious as to how many people are like this. I am completely obsessed with my girlfriend. I have been with her for 2 and a half years and she is all I think about.
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bigguy2010
12 months ago | pl
After 10 years of marriage, I am still obsessed with my wife.
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BlackDays
12 months ago | pl
Don't turn into a stalker if you two break up. Obsessions can be very dangerous !
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YouDontGetToKnow
12 months ago | pl
@: BlackDays
I like my obsession, though!
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kenyahtaj
12 months ago | pl
@: BlackDays
I very much agree.
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Avant-Garde
12 months ago | pl
It's normal to love your significant other, but it's never normal to become obsessive. What if she breaks up with you, what would you do? You to get control of this before you become a full-fledged stalker v
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Captain_Kegstand
12 months ago | pl
Obsession often times leads to her trying to gain some space and ultimately destroying the relationship. Back up a little and get some friends of your own.

Its good to love your partner, but too much of anything is a bad thing!

Lesson for today kids -moderation-
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YouDontGetToKnow
12 months ago | pl
@: Captain_Kegstand
I'm not a kid anymore! What if the obsession is mutual? Does that make it better?
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Captain_Kegstand
12 months ago | pl
@: YouDontGetToKnow
I didn't point you out as a kid specifically, its a saying, although you jumped to defense pretty quick lolz.

Obsession is something that rarely ever turns out well. Mutual love, respect, caring, understanding, these are all good things. Mutual obsession might be taking it a little over the edge. The word obsession itself is defined as 1) a compulsive or irrational occupation 2)An unhealthy fixation. Do either of these sound like a healthy relationship topic to you?
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plum6
11 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
@: Captain_Kegstand
agreed, it does happen (I find it happens more often in long distance relationships, when the need to 'own' eachother is greater).. It could work though and it does show that you care. Just try to keep the jealousy (because that's the real problem here) from becoming a problem
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Captain_Kegstand
11 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
@: plum6
Good thought, obsession and jealousy come hand in hand so often, that I didn't really think to make a differentiation. But you are correct, if you OP can keep the jealousy out of it, the obsession shouldn't really be an issue.
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