My best friend and I were a couple, well as much as we could be. We are both girls our parents didn't know. We started as friends, then best friends, then we told each other we were in love with one another. We had no issues expressing our feelings to each other. Our parents weren't sure what was going on and when her parents confronted her she folded, extremely long story short we are not allowed to see each other. We were sneaking around seeing each other at school but her brother goes to our high school, so her parents knew we were still talking. After they threatened to move her schools we stopped talking, about 3 months after all this I told her I loved her still, and she said she didn't love me and she never did. I know for a fact that cant be true, she made me feel like no one else could, even longer story short, I still am head over heels for her, her parents hate me, and I am going away to college this next fall and she still has another year of high school.
I have a boy friend we started dating in March, he is a great guy but I don't love him, she has my heart. She started dating this boy in February. He is in 4-H like her, have same interest like goats, he is from a wealthy family, just what her parents like (they are a bit shallow). He isn't handsome by any means but he will grow out of it and be a decent looking man. There house is huge, 9,000 Square feet plus huge property, granted not his but his father is a doctor, this kid is on the fast track and he seems to be very sweet to her. His & her mom work 4-h together, her parents have a ton of control over her and they love his parent, him, and of course the amount of money they have. He sounds absolutely perfect for her parents, and she seems to like him. He is kind, and treats her right, I am saying this because it is what she deserves.
I am an athlete who is leaving for college, I come from a family who doesn't have the money, by no means am I on the fast track my parents created, the track I am on is the one I created by working hard, excelling in school, being involved with the community, and being a good athlete in my sport. I have been going to college in high school, I will be a sophomore when I should be a freshmen, I am going to get my BA in finance and my MA in Marketing. I have the work ethic to be were his family is but only higher, along with the looks, personality, & brains. I just am not at that point yet. I talked about his appearance, I said I was an athlete no I am not "butchy" I am 5'6, tan, dark long hair, slim and fit, straight white teeth, and eyes that people can get lost in.
She is great like the whole package; beautiful,sweet, funny, intelligent, just I could go on and on. I said he is sweet and treats her well, I didn't say that because I treated her awful. I practicably worshiped the ground she walked on, I mean I am a girl too, I know what I want. I know how I want to be talked to, kissed, thought of, & treated. I come from a very old fashion family, where chivalry has never died. Oddly I fell for a girl, but I was happy. She would even ask me why I was so sweet, and willing to do things for her and I would simply say "because I love you". I wasn't doing these things to get into her pants, or anything else like a teenage boy would want to be "rewarded" for being nice. I did things for her because I love her and just wanted here to be happy, and if I was "rewarded" that was a terrific bonus. There wasn't a thing at all that could keep me from being there when she needed me, or a thing I wouldn't do for her.
I mean I honestly think I am a catch and perfect for her. I know her parents strongly disagree,and her parents are the puppet masters to her. With their influence and this seemingly perfect guy she happened to find I don't think I have a chance. So "Is it normal that I can't compete with my best friends boy friend?" if you have any comments or advice I would love to read over it.
Sorry it's so long
Simply-Complex
I have a boy friend we started dating in March, he is a great guy but I don't love him, she has my heart. She started dating this boy in February. He is in 4-H like her, have same interest like goats, he is from a wealthy family, just what her parents like (they are a bit shallow). He isn't handsome by any means but he will grow out of it and be a decent looking man. There house is huge, 9,000 Square feet plus huge property, granted not his but his father is a doctor, this kid is on the fast track and he seems to be very sweet to her. His & her mom work 4-h together, her parents have a ton of control over her and they love his parent, him, and of course the amount of money they have. He sounds absolutely perfect for her parents, and she seems to like him. He is kind, and treats her right, I am saying this because it is what she deserves.
I am an athlete who is leaving for college, I come from a family who doesn't have the money, by no means am I on the fast track my parents created, the track I am on is the one I created by working hard, excelling in school, being involved with the community, and being a good athlete in my sport. I have been going to college in high school, I will be a sophomore when I should be a freshmen, I am going to get my BA in finance and my MA in Marketing. I have the work ethic to be were his family is but only higher, along with the looks, personality, & brains. I just am not at that point yet. I talked about his appearance, I said I was an athlete no I am not "butchy" I am 5'6, tan, dark long hair, slim and fit, straight white teeth, and eyes that people can get lost in.
She is great like the whole package; beautiful,sweet, funny, intelligent, just I could go on and on. I said he is sweet and treats her well, I didn't say that because I treated her awful. I practicably worshiped the ground she walked on, I mean I am a girl too, I know what I want. I know how I want to be talked to, kissed, thought of, & treated. I come from a very old fashion family, where chivalry has never died. Oddly I fell for a girl, but I was happy. She would even ask me why I was so sweet, and willing to do things for her and I would simply say "because I love you". I wasn't doing these things to get into her pants, or anything else like a teenage boy would want to be "rewarded" for being nice. I did things for her because I love her and just wanted here to be happy, and if I was "rewarded" that was a terrific bonus. There wasn't a thing at all that could keep me from being there when she needed me, or a thing I wouldn't do for her.
I mean I honestly think I am a catch and perfect for her. I know her parents strongly disagree,and her parents are the puppet masters to her. With their influence and this seemingly perfect guy she happened to find I don't think I have a chance. So "Is it normal that I can't compete with my best friends boy friend?" if you have any comments or advice I would love to read over it.
Sorry it's so long
Simply-Complex
2. do what is right and what others want.
choose one..