I despise my kids. I seriously fucking despise my kids. I hate the way that their Mother raises them and she supercedes every parenting decision I have ever tried to make in their lives with some bullshit about creativity and uniqueness.
My daughter is a phone addict. She's a little bleached blonde tanned daisy duke wearing teen girl who can't look up from her phone to save her life. Everytime I tell her no and try to put my foot down she goes to Mom and puts on a fake display of tears while throwing in my face that I'm not around as much as Mom. Well no shit, Mom wanted to be a homemaker so someone has to work.
My son is no better. He dresses like a common street thug and if you look at his facebook you would think that he is one. That kid grew up in an upper middle class neighborhood and has probably never even seen a ghetto in real life but his Mom insists that I let him explore his identity as I sit there in the principal's office because he thinks he is too cool to show up to class sober.
But most of all, I hate my wife. She is a dumb cunt and every time she opens her mouth, I want to punch it. She talks about how stressful it is being a stay at home Mommy but I know that all she fucking does is go hang out with some alcoholic soccer Moms all day while the kids are at school. Errands my ass. She doesn't let me make any decisions for the kids whatsoever and says it's because I don't know them as well as she does.
I would gladly pay any amount of child support and alimony to get away from these idiots. Or hell, I'd take the kids with me, maybe then my dumb cunt of a wife would allow me some parental authority. Is it normal to hate your kids this much?
My daughter is a phone addict. She's a little bleached blonde tanned daisy duke wearing teen girl who can't look up from her phone to save her life. Everytime I tell her no and try to put my foot down she goes to Mom and puts on a fake display of tears while throwing in my face that I'm not around as much as Mom. Well no shit, Mom wanted to be a homemaker so someone has to work.
My son is no better. He dresses like a common street thug and if you look at his facebook you would think that he is one. That kid grew up in an upper middle class neighborhood and has probably never even seen a ghetto in real life but his Mom insists that I let him explore his identity as I sit there in the principal's office because he thinks he is too cool to show up to class sober.
But most of all, I hate my wife. She is a dumb cunt and every time she opens her mouth, I want to punch it. She talks about how stressful it is being a stay at home Mommy but I know that all she fucking does is go hang out with some alcoholic soccer Moms all day while the kids are at school. Errands my ass. She doesn't let me make any decisions for the kids whatsoever and says it's because I don't know them as well as she does.
I would gladly pay any amount of child support and alimony to get away from these idiots. Or hell, I'd take the kids with me, maybe then my dumb cunt of a wife would allow me some parental authority. Is it normal to hate your kids this much?
Maybe your kids are acting so strange because of all their daddy issues.
We certainly can't point the finger solely at the father here based on this anonymous rant, can we?
And we certainly can't decide the wife and children are innocent and blameless based on this same rant, can we?
All we can agree on is that it's rare for a father to "despise" his kids.
He clearly stated that when he tries to make a decision that his wife bypasses his parental choices, meaning he has can't take any responsibility for his parenting because every choice he makes as a parent is being challenged and changed by his wife.
Maybe it never accured to you that maybe, just maybe, he can't do anything to change his children because his wife won't let him? Ofcourse not, the mother can't do any wrong, even when "she" is the one lifting the father's foot when he is putting it down to try change his children. He tries to change his children, yet his wife isn't allowing him to try make them seme more respectful, yet it is the father's fault? Are you serious? Pathetic.
"They have daddy issues" yet he can't do anthing about it because the wife won't let him, and that's his fault? Ugh. Piss off.
This person tried to blame the husband for things he tried to fix but wasn't allowed to because his wife basically wouldn't let him, yet this stupic, irrational, less of a humanbeing insisted on blaming the husband.
I didn't used to be this hateful. I used to actually avoid bringing hate in to my comments, but this generation of IIN users are so impared to rational thinking and understanding that they can't understand simple things, their deductive reasoning is terrible, yet they insist on being right.
I have become sick and tired of the new community, the old onw was far more rational, far more helpful, and overall not as stupid as most here.
These people want to hear what they like to hear, not what the truth is, and this user's comment shows that.
The father doesn't want her daughter looking cheap and easy to get, and he doesn't want his son looking and acting like a thug, and his wife stops him from attempting to make them more respectable, and to this user's thought process he is a shitty dad for it.
I am nineteen, and I get so irritated, disgusted, and dissapointed that "these" people are my elders.
It sounds bitter but it's true. Just a few days ago I saw on my daughters facebook that she bought a new outfit for a house party on the other side of town. I asked her about it and she said she would be going over to her friend's house and that it was a casual get together and his parents would be home.
I know this family and I work with his Mom and they're out for the weekend for a prosthetics convention. She lied to me. I told her that she wasn't going. She went crying to Mom and all of five minutes later she's in my face giving me hell about my not letting my daughter have a teenage girl life and how I'm being overbearing and how I partied as a kid and she started yelling and screaming and threatened to kick me out for yelling back at her.
She's pretty much taught the kids that I am an overbearing asshole and I want her gone but that would mean I'd have to kiss my house and paychecks goodbye. I'm a grown man that has worked hard for my money and to provide for my family and if I want to lose this mess I'd have to give up everything I worked for. I'm tempted to move to Mexico.
Wow, what? You really need to find some way of teaching your wife a lesson. Your children are a problem because your wife is the root problem, she is allowing them to get away with these things. Pretty sure I read that you were the one that was working for the family? I assume you bought or are renting the house you live in? Next time she threatens you to leave, tell her (if you are paying for the house) that it is your house, you pay for it, and if she dares says that she'll kick you out, it will happen to her. Also explain to her that if you are to get kicked out, she won't be getting any of your income, and that she can work for her children.
Yes, this woman definetly is a problem for you and your kids. You need to try do something about her, either on social means (talking to her) or in legal means (divorce and taking the kids). When you take the kids, she may have to work for child support, which will teach her how hard it was for you.
Why would you have to give up your house? Also, if you get the children, she would have to pay child support, which means you may get the same, just a little less, or more money back in which you have to pay her.
This is the society we live in, unfortunatly. Nobody cares about the hard working men, and fathers are almost always pushed out of the family setting now.
If you would be expected to pay all of this, and the children are taken away from you even though you have a job, etc, then I would actually suggest moving to Mexico. You would get away with not having to pay a woman that is, and excuse my French, a bitch, and she'd not get any child benefits from you, inb which she'd probably have to go to work herself.
I am sorry this is happening to you.
You complain constantly about how this entire IIN community is irrational, overly emotional, illogical, stupid, placing yourself on some kind of pedestal as the pinnacle of logic, rationality and intelligence... Yet you stay here and continue to moan and whinge about it.
That seems irrational to me, like an abused spouse staying with their abuser :) Or even more relevantly like a father who utterly despises his kids and wife staying with his kids and wife.
Unless you gain some perverse gratification from being constantly irritated by us 'inferior beings'?
Not the whole IIN community, the majority. There are many old time users still around that don't even bother commenting anymore because of how the community has turned. Do I think I am the pinnacle or rational thinking? No. Do I think I am more rational than people on here? Definetly. Do I think I am the most rational person here? No.
So, you're saying that if someone "moans" about something that they forfit all of their intelligence and reasoning? So if you moan, you instantly become "illogicla", "irrational", etc? This is the irrationality I'm talking about.
The only thing that I can not blame you for putting in that list is the emotional part. Am I sharing an emotion here? Yes. Am I lketting it ovecome my reasoning? No.
Well you obviously don't know what irrational and rational thinking are.
The situations are not the same, those examples were far off, especially the second one.
I am not being abused here, I am being fed up here. I am staying because I was here first, I respect some users on here, and I have become acustomed to this site. I use this more than Facebook. I know that one day this generation will move away from the site, and that's wha I'm waiting for.
The second one is just insulting. The problem here is that he can't get away from them without having to suffer by paying money, all because he wasn't allowed to be a parent due to his wife basically not letting him, only using him as a money bringer. What this man is going through is different to what I'm doing.
Like I said, I'm waiting for this generation to pass by. Do I think I'm more rational than most users here? Definetly. Do I think I am the most rational on this site? Obviously not.
My point was that for someone who prides themselves on being more rational than the majority of the community, it seems to be distinctly irrational to continue participation in a community you seem to dislike so much.
However, if you're simply waiting for the community to magically return back to what you think was the golden-age of IIN, then OK, that's a valid and rational reason, although you may be waiting a long time.
I don't see why that second analogy was insulting to you, or why it would be insulting to anybody else frankly. That seems like an overly emotional response to my very simple perspective; I don't think the central problem in this case is the OP not being able to parent how he deems appropriate, nor that he can't get away without paying money. I see the central problem as being his continuing in a family unit he despises. Why put yourself through the endless stress and anger just so you can remain with a wife you hate and your children whom you also hate? I think that's irrational - it's irrational because rationally a person aspires towards a life without trouble and suffering since it tends to go hand in hand with a long existence and happiness. He's staying in a situation which clearly makes the possibility of his finding happiness minute, which is like someone shooting you in the foot and then you complaining about it for hours and hours instead of going to a doctor.
(FYI: "Well you obviously don't know what irrational and rational thinking are." I do. Rationality is sensible and logical reasoning, it's very simple isn't it? Although you may want to consider that first part - 'sensible'. That's where the subjectivity lies - where one person's sensible can be another's insensible, where one person's rational can be another's irrational. There is no absolute)
I am waiting for the next IIN generation. Do I think it will be better than before? Most likely not, but anything is better than this generation, and even if it is a little better than this one, I would have made the right choice to stick around.
What anology? The part in which you compared me to two different situations? That was not emotion saying you were wrong, that was rationality. I explained why they are not comparable to my situation.
You do realize how a divorce can financially cripple men, right? If he does this he may never have the chance to lead another life to the extent he did before the divorce and departcher from the family. You seem to think that they can just poof out of a disrespectful family. If he was to do that, he would suffer, and the family will be seen as the victims.
This man has thought about them, and he has said the risk he runs is losing his home and his paycheck. So it's not that easy. If you think it's irrational to not leave a family because you run the risk of being bled dry with no chance of starting a new family, then that's very irrational of you.
Yes, and if he divorced and left, he would have more problems and troubles.
It's not at all like that example. It's more like being shot in the foot, going to the doctors, being denied treatment, then moaning for hours.
There is an absolute. If ones rationality is able to prove the others rationality wrong, the rationality that was proven right is the correct one.
Look here, read this:
If doing so makes you annoyed, and you don't wish to be annoyed, continuing in a situation where you're annoyed surrounded by people who annoy you seems irrational. Simple rationality - I don't want to be annoyed, therefore I won't want to stay in this situation where I am annoyed.
However... and did you not read this bit because of your dull self-absorbed tunnel-vision or did you forget to actually understand it?
"If you're simply waiting for the community to magically return back to what you think was the golden-age of IIN, then OK, that's a valid and rational reason." You see the bit where I say your reason to stick around now makes sense. It's a rational reason. Without that justification your actions seemed irrational, with the justification they now seem rational. Do you understand? How something can seem irrational until it is explained? Do you see how I mentioned that in the previous post?
You said,
"The situations are not the same, those examples were far off, especially the second one." Those 'situations' were analogies, or similes to put it more simply for you.
You said,
"The second one is just insulting." Being insulted, having your feelings hurt, finding something objectionable on the grounds that it makes you sad or angry is an emotional response. An emotional response can be perfectly rational, the two are not mutually exclusive (did you know that?).
However, I don't see why you should find that insulting, or indeed the OP. Even if the OP in this case could well find himself paying a lot of money to his family if he left, he's paying a lot now, not just economically, but also in terms of his well-being. There's that saying - better to be poor and happy than rich and miserable. Perhaps it's better to be rich and miserable than poor and miserable, but, using the magical power of empathy most people are imbued with, if I were in his situation, I expect I'd try to get out of his situation. I wouldn't just sit around fuming and hyperventilating in order to hang on to my financial assets. If you find my opinion insulting then the internet must be a very upsetting place for you.
And there isn't an absolute. We have an agreed understanding of the world and what makes sense, but there are limits to the lengths to which we can all agree, and it's not as simple as one train of thought usurping another based on reason (as a child might think), reason itself isn't solid. What may seem rational in one civilisation could be absolutely irrational in another. This makes context of paramount importance, which proves in my mind (not necessarily in yours) that rationality is fluid and variable.
I know how these debates between you and other users play out; you accusing the person of not understanding or accepting that you're right in every way, the other person accusing you of not understanding or accepting that they are right in every way... Never-ending because neither party shifts. Because I have the benefit of foresight, I can safely say I care only up to this point and can't care any further. I don't feel I have any more of value to say, and I have a feeling neither do you. So for me this is The End :)
"I am waiting for the next IIN generation. Do I think it will be better than before? Most likely not, but anything is better than this generation, and even if it is a little better than this one, I would have made the right choice to stick around." just with more reason as to why and my thoughts on it.
So the "your dull self-absorbed tunnel-vision or did you forget to actually understand it?" was so completely and unbelievably ironic. You were too dull, self-absorbed, tunnel-visioned that you could not understand that I was agreeing with you and adding a little more of my thoughts in to that by also replying to the part in which you said I think it will become like the golden days of IIN. Again, ironic. Don't call someone things that you yourself are so oblivious to be giving a fine example of unintentionally, it just makes you laughable.
Wrong. So it is only rational until the other agrees that it is rational? That's like saying something isn't true until it's proven, the fact was that the truth was always there, we just never grasped it. That was an example, and in this situation you are saying that something is only rational until proven rational, which is just irrational. The rational conclusion is always there, it doesn't just become rational when proven, it was always rational, it was just not agreed to be rational, that doesn't mean that because it wasn't agreed to that it was never the right rationality. Again, your whole mentality here is that something is not true unless it is proven, instead of it is always true, we just need to find a way to make others understand it is.
Yes, and I said that those were not at all comparable to what you are saying they are comparable to. You are trying to link them to the situation at hand, which were completely irrational, and I explained why.
You are saying emotion can be used for rational thinking? Obviously you are wrong. Can both be part of a point? Yes. I can say "fuck you, you asshole" with emotion, then explain why I feel that way and what made me feel that way with rational thinking. (Did you know that?)
And his house. You forgot to mention his house. He will have to find a new area, and pay for a new house that he previously had.
So you're basically trying to say that he should just leave? If anything, he should kick his wife out, and make her pay child support. He will have his house, his paycheck, and he'd be able to look after his kids better.
The poor and happy thing is just a terrible line. I could go in to detail to explain why, but surely you would already know.
By insulting I didn't mean insulting to me personaly, I meant insulting to the situation.
The reason part has already been explained above. You told me about being repetative, yet you are basically doing it.
Ta ta.
Frankly, I can't say I blame him.
This site was designed as a safe place to share how you 'really' feel, but is abused by many users as a safe place to create even more lies about the self-image.
His comments -hell, my comments- got a hell of a lot more popular when they became less opionated and structured, and more 'funny' and whimsical. It happened to a bunch of users, really.
ItDuz has been here 1 year longer than I have, so I can't dispute his claim that the 1st 'generation' of IINers he experienced were superior. However, In the year I've been here I haven't noticed a deterioration. It's not perfect, but I don't see anything that wasn't around from when I started coming.
I don't feel like the quality of user contributions here has declined. Also, as much as on occasion the joke comments are the most popular (as is the case here), I actually see the reverse as frequently; the most fully-formed answers are often at the top.
Like I stated on another comment, there is a motrher that posted basically the same thing about hating her husband and kids, and look at the feedback.
What has this person done? Has he stopped working for the family? No. What did the mother do? She stopped doing anything in general.
So you're unintentionally implying that he hasn't gone through the frustration, even when "he" is the one that deserves the most respect in the family for working to keep them fed and heated.
This man does not sound arrogant at all. He expects to be able to make decisions as a father, then is frustrated when his wife, someone that is doing barely anything, where as he is working for a living, is denying him to make choices as a parent.
Just leave? Yeah, at the risk of losing his home, his paycheck, and doesn't have a chance to make his children more respectable. "He" has to give up everything because he is not allowed to make choices as the father, yet if he was to leave, he would be expected to take responsibility for them.
If anything, the mother in the links I shared is far worse. She left the whole family because she was expected to clean. This man is working, the provider of the family, and he is being disrespected.
Clearly you are trying to blame this man for any stupid reason you can come up with, where as try to make the woman that done a far worse thing saying "Atleast she's not as bad". You're obviously saying it's different only because he is a man, the father, and she's the mother, a woman.
If you have nothing to say but blindly trying to say I am having these opinions because she's a woman, just becaus eyou can't say anything better, then don't reply at all. Waste of your time and mine.
Last time he done that he almost got thrown out of his "own" home.
boohoo
"I hate the way my kids are! Wah wah! I don't know how to be a parent!" Take a goddamn parenting book and fix them. It's normal to be concerned for your children not hate them. Hell maybe he's taking frustration he gets from his wife (let's face it inevitable divorce) and aiming it toward his kids, which is also wrong.
And bleaching your hair and wearing hoodies is not a crime.
Why is he so scared of her? Because of the reaction he will get. If you read the comments and replies he makes, you'd understand, b ut I certainly doubt you'll feel sorry for him, he's the asshole and the mother is the rainbow sunshine carebear to you.
He is scared because of how the reaction would be legally. He is scared to want a divorce because his house and paycheck can be taken away, everything he ever worked towards. His wife threatened to throw him out when he stood up to her, even though it's "his" house. Legally, society will help the female here and leave this poor man by himself with no help, even when he was trying to help his children by makiing them more responsible, and even though he is the one working to keep his children fed and heated.
Bullshit you would. From what I have seen from you, I strongly dissagree you would.
Piss off. He hates the way his children are, and so he tries to make them more respectable. He can't. Why? Beause his wife won't let him be a parent, and won't let him try to teach them to be respectable. Yet, it's his fault. "wah, wah", right? Fucking baffoon.
"I don't know how to be a parent". He's trying to be. He "can't". His wife will not let him be by bypassing all the decisions he makes as a father. And since he works, his mother most likely lets the children off of his punishment, basically belittling him (if it was gender reversed you would be having a period) and yet "he" is the one that doesn't know how to be a father? It isn't that he doesn't know, it's that his wife isn't letting him be. Fuck. Do you have no deductive reasoning, or are you purposly just being a nimrodded baffoon?
Take a Goddamn parenting book and fix them? Did you even fucking read the description? Are people so fucking shocked when I be negative to people on here when I have to read this, then see that four idiots thumbed it up? This is going in capitals so you can understand.
"HE CANNOT FIX HIS CHILDREN TO BE MORE RESPECTABLE, BECAUSE EVERY DECISION HE MAKES GETS BYPASSED BY THE WIFE. HE WORKS, AND SO HE CAN'T KEEP AN EYE ON HIS CHILDREN 24/7, IN WHICH THE WIFE WILL JUST GIVE BACK WHAT WAS TAKEN AWAY FROM THEM BY THE FATHER TO MAKE THEM MORE RESPECTABLE".
How can you not understand this? I tell you why, because it is the father. You are blaming the father for not being able to make choices as a parent, even though it isn't that he's not trying, it's that his wife won't let him, but yeah, totally not the mother's fault, remember, she's a carebear, and the father is just an asshole, right?
I don't believe he hates his children. I believe he hates his children fro who they, and he is trying to help them, but he can't. I think he hates how his kids have turned out. His wife? I would hate her too, she is the root of the problem.
He is pissed off at his wife because she is allowing the children to further go on as problems. His children are a problem, and his mother is the cause and root of it. Without the mother, I have no doubt he would change them in to more respectable children that he would love completely.
Is that in regards to the image of his children? She is not "bleaching her hair" only, she is also dressing in a slutty way. Wearing hoodies? He also explained how he is acting like a thug. Again, did you even read the description?
This is what I have to deal with from most of you, and you are really fucking mindfucked over why I think of most of you in a negative manner?
He SAID he hated his children and I'm going to take his word for that not your assumption. He has not shown concern for his children. He HATES his children. Maybe you don't realize what a big deal that is because you throw the word "hate" around pretty often but that's pretty abnormal. "I want you to change because I love you" and "I want you to change because I hate you" mean two entirely different things and I don't understand why you think hate and love are interchangeable!
Oh, and if kids like the ones described told me that their dad hated them I would say that they had DADDY ISSUES. (They might have other issues too on top of that) And I would say that a dad who hates their kids is a BAD FATHER.
Again, you try to blame the father in any matter. He has tried, but he can't carry out what he tries to put in motion for the better of his children.
That is like me saying "Yeah, well the rapist is bad, and in no way am I defending him, but I doubt the rape victim is an angel". Ofcourse, you'd go apeshit if someone said that on here.
Words in your mouth? What words? Again, explain, don't just state. If you explain what I have apparantly put in your mouth I can either explain why I came to that conclusion accuratly, or apologize.
Yes, he hates his children. "Why" does he hate his children? Do you need everything babystepped to you? Use your brain. Link things together in the description. He hates them because they are not respectful. He tries to make them respectful, in attempts to put them in the right back and love them as father to child, but can't. This isn't my assumption, it is deductive thinking.
He has not shown concern for his children? What? Did you even read this?
- Everytime I tell her no and try to put my foot down she goes to Mom and puts on a fake display of tears.
- but his Mom insists that I let him explore his identity as I sit there in the principal's office because he thinks he is too cool to show up to class sober.
Unless you are not reading things correctly, you have no excuse for missing those parts. He clearly wants them to change, and his wife is stopping him from doing anything to make them decent, respectable children.
He "hates" who his children are, and wants to make the more respectable so that he can love them.
What are you talking about? He hates who they are, so he wants them to change so he can love them. How is not able to go in to your head?
Ugh. Again. You're just so unbarable.
Wait! You seriously don't know that there's a difference between wanting to someone to change because you love them versus because you hate them? And you even put in this "earn your folk's love" thing? And now that awkward moment when I feel bad for you.
Well at least you can argue with the fury of a thousand prepubescent Call of Duty gamers.
Ugh. Last time I'm going to say this. Why the hell can't other users understand things or explain why they think someone is wrong?
He hates who his hildren are, not his children completely. If he wants his children to change because he loves them, but hates who they are. Kind of like how you can dislike a family member, yet love them. If you need this explained to you furthermore, then I lack the patience to make you understand this.
You know what's actually funny, you try to insult me on my argung/debating style, yet you can't even understand or prove one single point I made wrong. So in otherwords, how does it feel to pretty much need babied by someone you describe as a prepubescent call of duty gamer?
So far all you have done is:
1st paragraph: "Nuh! That doesn't work! I can't explain why, but it just doesn't!"
2nd paragraph: Completely misunderstanding simple things that are being babied to you.
3rd paragraph: Basically insulted yourself in your attempts to insult me.
Good going, FocoUS, you go girl!
The guy has a point, a big one. She does sound like a shit mother, and worse she wrecks whatever decent parenting he attempts.
And seeing as i'm always right about everything, that must be the case.
You only get one life and stress can cut it short. Follow your own advice, pay the kids support from a distance and start anew. Sometimes things don't work out how you'd like them to, and if you can't improve your lot standing still, step out and go somewhere different.
I have no problem paying either however, while I am not wealthy I have many assets. I'm a civil engineer and I make good money but I also invest and as a result I have multiple assets and from the legal advice that I have gotten, other than paying out my ass in alimony she will get at least 30% of my portfolio which would be horrible because she knows nothing of investments and those are stocks that, if I sold tomorrow, would be worth tens of thousands and she'd spend herself into a hole... AGAIN. She has no financial management skills and the only thing standing between our family and homelessness is that fact that she's locked out of all of the major accounts.
I don't know if I could trust her to use the money wisely and keep the kids fed and clothed.
I can't really see much of a way around that though. If you stay with your wife and kids simply because you don't trust your wife to correctly spend the money she'd receive upon your divorce, you're remaining miserable simply to protect some financial assets. What do you GAIN from that scenario? You retain stocks but stay unhappy.
Financial stability is great, but if you have to choose between financial stability and the possibility of having a happy and fulfilling existence with people you love, the latter option wins, does it not?
You said you DESPISE your children, so what does it matter to you if they're fed or clothed? Unless you were simply expressing your frustration and saying things you don't actually mean?
I say you just get a divorce or something. Again I don't know the whole story but I kind of pity you.
Man, bad move trying to explain how the father is the victim. There is no father victim in this community, didn't you know? If the wife isn't allowing you to try make your children more respectable, it's "your" fault. That is the IIN community's mentality going on.
Don't waste your time asking such a question to these people, really.
Personally, I think you should give your wife a chance. Tell her that you are bringing in the money, and you are allowed to choose what punishments your children get if they deserve it, and if she ever tries to give back what youhave taken from your kids in your attempts to make them more respectful, tell her that's strike one. Tell her she has three strikes, and once those three strikes are up, you are filng for divorce and going to try take the kids. She obviously is the reason why they have turned out so bad. She is not even alowing someone else to try make them more respectful, and then allowing them to get away with what ever you have punished them for.
But really, this is just so ducking gross of a community. If this was a mother talking about her kids and husband, there will be no comments about how they might just have mommy isues, and all of them will be about how unfair she is treated.
The wife is the problem, and the childrens problem are the mother not diciplining them or allowing their father to.
Who is she to not let you dicipline your children when you are the one bringing in the money?
PERSONALLY I HATE how I was raised - my mother was so lenient and my father's too busy with work.
When I'm older and have kids I will HOPEFULLY stick by my plan and go Aunt Polly on their asses, and bring them up in the ways of the 1800s. Well, minus the Christianity.
If you were able to get the kids, you may not have to pay child support.
http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-i-hate-my-husband-40097/
...Amazing how it's so different for women that hate their partners and children, yet it's funny and the father's fault when he says it, yet it's "poor you" when the woman goes through it.
I am nineteen, yet these people older than me lack so much rational thinkinng compared to me. Think I'm just being arrogant? Ask all the main users that have been here far longer than you have, and they will imply of this. They won't bluntly say it, but imply it, because unlike me, they have some weird reason to think you deserve to be treated as a rational being.
There is a reason why so many of the regulars left when you all did.
Newest IIN generation, for the love of God, please move the fuck on from this site.
Maybe you should tell your wife you know what im the man of the house dont take no for an answear.. Unless you want to be a little bitch the rest of your life?
As for your wife and kids, they all sound like little bitches.
Get off your lazy ass and go to work. If you already have a job, get another one. Babies are more expensive than fucking Ferraris and in a few months, you're going to wish you'd have gotten a Ferrari instead.
Should have kept it in your pants and gotten a Ferrari you dumb fuck.
Haha your fucking pathetic.
Should listen to your own advice, ignorant honky.
Haha stupid ass.
This whole conversation is so shallow. Haha I can't take you seriously at all, your venting about your wife and kids on the internet instead of growing some balls and doing something about it.
I don't give a fuck about your life enough to think about it any deeper. This is just pure entertainment. We are having fun. :)
This means respecting what she does for the house, not just constantly putting her down. And coming from a womans point of view if you praise her she will praise you too!
I have done both.... been the breadwinner and the stay at home mum. Both are Equally difficult and both demand respect for their input.
You sound like a hard worker, i'm sure she does respect your input into the family, just doesn't show it because why should she when you don't respect her!!!
The tension between you and your wife is affecting your relationship with your kids, sometimes a divorce is the best thing & you might find that your relationship with your kids will get better with time. you go into a marriage with the best intentions giving it your all and it doesn't work out. I admire the fact that you want to pay for your kid's well being my dad fucked off he was a rich guy but left us nothing took back the uni money he had given me cunt.
You two have a war going that includes the kids as a battle ground. Get counselling because you need to turn things around one way or the other. I don't think you hate your children. I think you are worried about what the chaos is doing to them.
But you have to also step back and address your bitterness about your kids. You can't afford to alienate them - they'll be your kids all your life, even though your marriage may not last. Get help with that.
You're the man of the house
so stop bitching and tell your ours & wife whatsup!
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