But I don't want to hear about it. It's completely fine with me if he finds other women hot, if he checks them out occasionally (as long as he's not a pig), hell, he could even go to a strip club with friends. However, I don't want him telling me about it or rating girls with him or anything, that I find really rude.I mean, I want to hear about it if he's say, slept with another woman, or even kissed her, but I don't want to hear about who he thinks is hot or how fantastic that lap dance was, but I don't mind him actually doing those things...is that normal?

First I would like to say that I wish more women could accept that men are pretty simple when it comes to women and that we can't even help checking out an attractive lady or even having the urge to go to a strip-club or watch porn etc. For us guys it has nothing at all to do with a relationship, and it would normally not affect the attraction or feelings towards the woman that they love and care for at all.
I also agree that you should not have to listen to him giving his opinion on how much your bf is sexually interested in any other woman. IMO that is just a matter of respecting your partner.