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Is it normal that I don't want to be bisexual?
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I am an 18 year old female and in the past year, I have become attracted to girls. I'm still hugely attracted to men hugely but in the past few months, I have become sexually attracted to a lot more girls and would like to explore that side of me.
But I just don't want to be bisexual. I have nothing against bisexuals, I just don't want to be one myself. I am planning of 'coming out' in a couple of months (when I go to university) but I am scared to death. I am scared what my family/friends/new friends at university may think of me.
I don't see myself with a woman in the future too, as in a serious relationship. But I know I am definitely attracted to girls but too scared to act on it and don't really want to be bisexual.
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You are not a bisexual. There's no point in coming out, because you are not bi. I guess you are what they call "bi- curious". So, maybe you should "come out as bi- curious.
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Spacey, that's the second brilliant answer I've read from you tonight :) The first being, the reply you gave the guy whose friend was drunk and wanted to jump off a balcony :)
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I just saw your reply to me on that story. :)

Thank you! A complement like this always brightens my day. ^_^
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You're very welcome :) Can't wait to have internet again so we can continue our convos :) Oh, btw, have you listened to the whole of Born Villian yet? :)
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I can't wait either. :)

Yes I did, and, I wish I didn't in some ways. It's not as good as old Marilyn Manson. :'( Breaking the Same Old Ground was one of my favorites, though. And I do like it, but I just wish it was better. :)

Do you like it?
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I do like it actually, it's been like my flavor of the month so far. Although, IMHO, I like it better than his older stuff :)
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Will someone awsner my boy dramma questions ? OO
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Link please?
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SO all this time when I had the same thoughts of me being bi and finally just started trying to tell people I'm bi, I turn out NoT being bi!!!!!
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@: Boo!
Correct. You were just a little confused at first, but now you know not you are not bisexual. Just, bi-curious.

I like your username, by the way. :}
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WOW, its going to be pretty embarassing telling everyone I told, I not bi and never was. I feel like I'm an idiot!? Yet I feel relieved I was never comfortable with being bi. I truly didn't want to be bi.

Thanks, I got the idea from the mario game boo-bye. I was so hung up on scaring ghost that I named myself boo! And look at the irony here, I meet a ghost!? Hmm I should scare you sometime. Oh I too like your name ;D We must be related in someway hmm...
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@: Boo!
Oh crap! That barely makes any sense. It should read:

Correct. You were just a little confused at first, but now you know you are not bisexual. Just bi- curious.

Sorry about that huge typo! >_<

Ahh, don't worry about it. It's easy to be confused about a lot of things. The only way to ever understand is to ask a lot of questions. So many people are confused about their sexuality. It's better that you found out now instead of some long time down the road from now. By then you could have made a huge mistake.

You're welcome. :) And, thank you! I put a lot into this username and it has a very special secret meaning to it. :D
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Haha, you know you could have let it slide I didn't notice. Oh and I noticed I have a typo up there too not 'meet' but 'met.' So, I'd say the scores even.

yeah, no kiddin. I can even picture myself in an extremly awkward senario. yikes!

You're welcome too. You shouldn't have told me that, now I need to find out!!?! One of these days I gonna make you spill the beans! XD
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Please can you tell me the difference between being bisexual and bi curious? I don't understand. Thanks :)
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Spacey is right. You should listen to Spacey :)
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BlueJeans the difference between bi and bi-curious is when ur bi-curious ur not sure what u want. Bi means u truely can c urself marrying/having a long term relationship with both. However bi-curious people normally just find both genders attractive.
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@: lemons
Thankyou. I agree, I don't see myself having a serious relationship with a woman, I am just attracted to a few.
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ebulliance
I'm bisexual, have been since I was 14. Kind of proud of it.
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Like Space said, you're bi-curious.
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You aren't. You were attracted to men first, you're straight and a little sad.
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Than dont be ? Its as simple as that you dont have to screw around with women its callled self restraint child
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It's called natural, innate feelings.... Child.
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yes but you dont have to act on them - -
its a chioce to have sex , and its a chicoe to have a boyfreind I have controlled myself for years so I see no reason why nobody else can
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It doesnt matter poeple will also have annate feeling that they want to kill the person that is talking krap to them and finally snap but no some of these poeple dont they deal with krap thier whole lives but they make a strong couieseince effort not to do it , you dont even need to have a boyfreind you can make a chioce not to do them , I made a chicoe to not have any for a long time and when I began dating poeple it was my chioce unless thier is gun to your head you could just choose not to commit the act, sure the feeling are thier but you dont have to act on them , lets say you hate your boss are you gonna tell them I hate you ? no you just dont say anything and if they cant find anyone and its an unoppurtune time they should wait till their more sure of themselves and they are more psychologiclly ready for this next step , and if it was me coming out of the closet and I was her Id wait for a more oppurtune time . she doesnt want to be bi but is having gay thoughts if she doesnt want to be classified as bi or gay than she shouldnt commit the act and if she wants to try them she should wiat to see if she willing to deal with the reactions or if she is more sure of herself to try anything becuase she doesnt seem sure at all and at this piont she would just be jumping back and force between no i like women no i like men and this will not even garentuee if she fully gay or fully streight that is my only piont im making . so if she doesnt want to questioned about the iccident she just shouldnt do it ". I know who all have feelings I know some of us have sexuel desieres and curiouslty that we cant change but that doesnt change what we do " .
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Also it cuases alot of problems and drammas when you dont know and you expirement with someone is sure , becuase you leave that person saying im sorry nevermind Im streight and that Gay person is heartbroken becuase they truly cared about you and you left them for some dude or just decide to not like them anymore . Thats sad when it happens to gay poeple and it happens to streight poeple , I say that becuase she will cuase detrementel harm to self or possibly others . and if you were a gay chick with someone and they left you saying never mind im streight wouldnt you be sad ? wouldnt you be really upset knowing you could never even attempt to see if you can patch things up becuase thy switched sides ? So Thats what i mean for sayign jsut dont do it becuase she is gonna hurt herself and so many others if she is not sure and thats always very sad and I have seen it happen before its horrible to watch go down .
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Also I like your name good cloth combo
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Fair enough. I do agree with what you are saying don't get me wrong. You did bring up some pretty important points. By the way it's me who asked the question.
And lol thanks, its from Blue Jeans by Lana Del Rey.
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