Is it normal that I find my father revolting?

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After reading the title of this post I was expecting to find very revolting stuff. Such as:
Pieces of turds laying in the bathtub after he takes a shower.
Never washes and smells like a cow's dunk.
Smokes smelly nasty toxic cigars turning the house into a deadly gas chamber.
Never says anything meaningful but yet he thinks of himself as the brightest most wise man on earth.
Jacks off over the kitchen table and leaves the result over it for all to see.
Hides all kinds of pornographic material in his basement, along with a bunch of sex toys, dildos and other stuff.. the filthiest dirtiest spookiest place I have ever been in since my last visit to the town haunted house.
Drives his car thinking he is a pilot and there is a prize to win by risking to crash as many times as he can.
Throws bottles filled with urine at drivers daring to surpass him. Runs over abandoned dogs and other wandering animals saying: it would have been living a wretched life without a master to care for it anyway.
Can eat a pound of half rotten apples and still be walking around.
His breath is foul as the foulest garbage dump you can ever have the misfortune of finding yourself in.
Whenever something he can't handle happens, he starts complaining with a desperate tone in his voice invoking god and the virgin mary.
Wipes his nose with a paper towel, spits in it, then places the whole thing back in his pocket. Sometimes does the same thing with actual towels in the bathroom.

These are just a few things my own father does. So..
You don't have any idea what's revolting.

Gives people fruit baskets. Tries bribing police agents. Goes in search of charity even known he is on pension. (that's a thing he always did, live as a bum and stash money away for later use, to spend it on hookers and poker games)He Is the cheapest fuck Ever! If somebody spends more than five bucks to buy some clothes, he or she is a spoiled brat. Doesn't remember anybody's birthdays. Never gave me a present. His idea of a present is a lighter and maybe a broccoli.
Anyone who's still good looking,to him, made a deal with the devil.
......... Can't read, can't write..... thinks an armadillo is an exotic dish.
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if you hate doing things for him the best answer is to move out and get your own place.

then you won't have to pick things up for him or watch him eat

My dad used to make me and my sister clean the house and serve him his food. If not he would hit us. I remember feeling such an intense uncomfortable feeling only now I realize it was anger and resentment towards him. He made life seem like I was inferior. To follow his patronizing condescending orders. It really did affect my self esteem later on in my preteen years what a waste.


Not healthy the advice I can give you is keep an open mind and tell yourself that he is an imperfect human if he does not give you the love A.D. father should then move on. I've learned that you cannot as much as you can change someone and that's life:/

Rape him.

Are you a woman? If the answer is yes then he really shouldnt be bending down for anything in the house at all, you should be taking care of the chores and cleaning that encompasses keeping the household running. You should be thankful he cares enough about you to teach you the importance of these skills so that you can know what your role and place is when you get married.

If you are a man then its natural to not like him, male rivalry.