Is it normal that I HATE it when my boyfriend looks at porn?

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FUXKING HATE IT. I dumped him cuz he wouldn't stop

It created terrible issues within me i could never resolve with him or even myself. Hate HIM now too.despite our counseling and hard work and efforts it just hurt and went too deep to pull the knife out, so to speak. Fuck porn and the hoes in it

Nothing new about it. it depends on a girl's self esteem, i think cause i had girl who would flip shit like the comment above -obviously there are dark woods of issues here that i better leave alone. And there were girls that understood that there's nothing wrong with it. Actually I dated a girl for a while who used to watch porn as well, and soon i discovered that many other girls watch it too.

it's really NOT normal to hate it that much, really.

It is normal to have your own opinion, but the amount of dislike i'm sensing is a little overboard. I have watched porn WITH most of my girlfriends, and it is quite an interesting experience!


Sex is everywhere, movies, advertising, tv, radio, internet, it's not something you will get away from!

Give the guy a break, it's just porn...jeez.

I think this might reflect how much self confidence you have (or lack).

Personally, boyfriends watching porn doesn't bother me. I know that I'm not available nor willing to have sex 24/7, and if I'm not, how can I blame him for fulfilling his own needs?

And besides, watching porn does not mean those ladies are better than you or that he wishes he was with them instead of you. They're there as more of an object of sexual stimulation.

And you, my friend, are hopefully much more than that to him.

I dumped my ex of 2 years coz he wouldn't stop watching so I understand how it hurts and people are close minded and think it's normal ... so annoying

You need to let go of your insecurities. It's normal for people to look at porn. Try watching it with him.