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Is it normal that I hate my boyfriend's brother's girl friend?
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Ok let me explain this further. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 years. His younger brother has casually dated many girls, and they all come & go. They all have never bothered me. Until this recent one.

First thing that bothered me is how disrespectful she was in front of everyone, including his family. She would cuss a lot like she was talking to her friends & even talks ugly to the brother, like tells him to "Shut the fuck up," in front of his friends. She left her moms house after she graduated high school (I'm assuming she didn't want any rules), and she started staying at a friends house. She would use my boyfriend's brother for rides to work, parties, or wherever she wanted. Eventually the friend she was living with was moving & wanted the girl friend to leave. The girl friend then asks my boyfriends mom if she can move in. My boyfriends mom said no. So next thing we know, she gets pregnant. Mind you, this is literally just one MONTH that they have been together. As soon as she finds out she's pregnant, she MOVES IN. She completely acts at home, walks around naked in a towel after a shower. YES it bothers me, because MY boyfriend is there.

She now tries to treat me like I am the outsider. I have taken a step back honestly, & still try to act like she doesn't exist just to avoid me wanting to kick her ass. Of course the brother & her fight sometimes & she left to stay at her moms one night, my boyfriend who worked overnight that night, comes home to see his front yard destroyed. She tore down all their Christmas lights, threw stuff around, put a car seat box in the front yard, and a filthy one on their door step. My boyfriend was really mad, but what happens? She is there at the house the very next day & the parents act like nothing happened. I called it from day one that she was no good & my boyfriend started to believe me after that. I then had their little sister on my side too, who would tell me how much the girl friend picked on her. She would call her a little baby & make her get her stuff when it was just in the next room. Tell her she needs to do more around the house. While the girl friend just sits on her ass & has the boyfriends mom clean their room. It is just so ridicules. Another thing as if i haven't included enough, She thinks it's okay to NAP in my boyfriends bed, the parent have even let her drive my boyfriends car because "SHE has a license" & the brother doesn't. She'll leave stuff in his room, like her straightener. To piss me off more I am sure. & Also has told the brother in front of his family, that why can't he be more like his brother ! (MY BOYFRIEND)

There is just SO much more she has done that would take forever to write, but is it normal that I hate her for all this? I know she can wish all she wants if she wants my boyfriend. WE are really happy together & I do what I can to not let her phase me! I get along with all the girl friends in the family, but WOW did this girl just shove her way in. What can I do? It's VERY hard to tolerate her. Idk what the hell the parents problem is, but they seem to fail to see the whole picture & practically place her at the same level as me. It offends me sometimes, because I've been working at the same place for years, come from a great family, & go to college. Refuse to trap their son with a baby, and want to do things the right way & leave a good example for his & my little sister. It's just really annoying that his parents don't see that.
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Piss on her face.
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I would punch her in the face. But, I'm just that type of person. If someone makes me super angry, and they're nudging their stupid face in my business, I can't keep quiet. I'm usually pretty mellow and understanding, but this girl would push me to my limits. You don't have to punch her in the face, but I would tell ehr to back off. I think the parents know she's trouble, but I think they're thinking in the long term. She's carrying their grandchild, so she'll be in their live a lot longer than they'd like. They have to be on good terms or it would more hellish than it is now. Just be thankful you're not them. Once you move out with your bf, she's not your problem anymore.
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Yes, it's normal. She sounds terrible. Look for ways to take yourself, your boyfriend and his little sister away from this poisonous asshole. Just because she's about to crap out a crotch-dumpling doesn't mean she can't be expected to behave like a civilized human being instead of an animal, and I don't know what the hell is wrong with his parents that they permit this behavior under their roof.

Your BF may also want to get a lock on the door. Chances are good this trashy thing is stealing from him as well as napping in his bed and otherwise usurping his space.
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Yes I agree with this comment... This girl sounds like a fucking bitch and by now I would have already snapped
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Crappping a crotch dumpling... that just made my day lmao
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I never thought about the stealing thing ! You are right !! She's always making excuses & trying to find ways for their parents to give her money, I wouldn't doubt that she would steal. Thanks!!
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You should take her fishing in a isolated lake far from civilization. Don't forget the rope, bat, and cinderblocks, you know for catching the fish.
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You have to go guerrilla on that bitch's ass. Hand her mobile number out to online spam companies and sign her up for all the crap stuff you can find, it won't stop her from being a dick head but at least you can have a private laugh.
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@: Darkoil
Sounds like such a hilarious idea !! lol. I would love tooo !! Thing is, idk how to get a hold of her number. Hmmm..... haha!
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It's most definitely not a phase that she does to faze you.
You can't do anything.
Cept' murder her and dump her remains in cement.
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Crusad3s
Kill her :)
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I only clicked "No" because your question was 100% Yes and it was bothering me
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This sounds horrible. First of all, she sounds like a complete pyscho! She also sounds like a mindless, selfish bit*h!!! I would have already snapped on her seriously, it sounds like I would have put her in her place and especially her taking naps and leaving her straightener in your boyfriends room??? Does she hangout in there alone? That would piss me of just as much as how she destroyed the front yard. This bit*ch sounds like she is trying to take over and piss you off. Hell no, I would do something about this regardless if she is pregnant screw that BS!!
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@: foxyk
The fact that she's pregnant & also that I don't want to cause family drama is what keeps me from not telling her anything. But it is really hard, Idk what to do really?? But you did describe her perfectly! I never really want to go over there now, & i know that's kind of letting her take over almost. The only one that hears it is my bf, and i know he can't do much about it. He said if it was up to him, they wouldn't be there.
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Yeah it just sucks that she's getting in the way of everyone and now even your relationship! I would tell your bf there has to be another alternative so you two can see each other. Tell him you don't want her around even if it has to be u and him hanging out in his room alone.... Other than that I don't know seems like you're stuck especially because she's pregnant :/
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@: foxyk
Yeah I can't even visit my boyfriend without having to see her. & It just gets mee sooo mad to see my boyfriend buying stuff for the house (to help his parents out) that I know she's going to use! Lol. Is that dumb or no? ha. We have been spending more time at my families or in his room, but it's just nuts like on holidays, even if the brother isn't there, she will STILL go alone. She's up their ass 24/7.
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WOW even if he is not there she is stillll up their asS? and no, you sound perfectly normal lol I would be pissed if i was in that situation...i get where you're coming from. when i cannot stand someone, i imagine myself beating the fuck out of them multiple times, hoping i won't actually do it.
....lol
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@: foxyk
Yeah if he's working or with friends, she'll still be there. She has her own family, she just chooses to put all her loyalies to this one that she hasn't even known long. & Thank youu! Ha
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LOL A FILTHY ONE!
Any ways I say...tell that slut to piss off or else HER baby is gonna feel YOUR foot.
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robbieforgotpw
Nice novel
*turbo poots**
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That's ridiculous!
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If you want to get rid of that bitch, all you have to do is provide a homemade abortion service- apply a high pressure velocity substance made of fist to the abdomen.
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