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Is it normal that I have an attraction to my best friend?
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Me and my friend have been the best of friends for years now. Always hanging out whenevr its possible. Lately things have been getting odd. I feel like we flirt, and I don't know if that's the case or not. Let me add that we are both girls, and I've never had feelings towards a girl. I don't know if I'm getting the feelings of a friend mixed up with romantic feelings, or what's going on. I mean, I'm strangely turned on by her, and that definitely weirds me out. I don't know?
Do you think it's normal?
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Murasaki (29687)
2009-11-05 03:32:46
Flirting is a natural and necessary social interation which lets you assess how attractive you are to the opposite sex and helps to improve your self esteem if pulled off successfully. With a boy, this would be 110% natural, but with a girl, whether you want it or not, you may in fact be gay. Or have gay tendancies; there is an online test you can take which will assess how gay or straight you are -http://www.youthnetsouthampton.org.uk/breakout/kleingrid.php.

Friends are in fact one of the most likely people you are to flirt with. They're safe, you know you'll still be friends and if you've already formed quite a bond then it makes the flirting even more enjoyable. If you don't have any real objection to being a lesbian, then why not go for it? If you're having doubts about what your sexuality is then you obviously need to sort it out and the only way to do this is by seeing if it "feels right" with a girl or with a boy. At least you know it'll be with someone you can trust. If it doesn't work out, then you know you're not entirely a lesbian.

I hope everthing works out! : )
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pete1729 (30863)
2009-11-06 05:39:24
you probably feel really safe with your best friend. she might be closer to you than anybody ever. Just be careful and realize that your friendship is really important.
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