I met my husband almost 5 years ago and we dated for 4 years and then got married a little over a year ago. Now my parents are very conservative, my father is a doctor and my mom is a home maker. Now growing up this is what I observed and my mom didnt work (she sure spent the money like it was her job lol). Now I feel I shouldnt have to work and the man should go out and provide everything that we need in terms of "bringing home the bacon" and just about everything else as well. I am not saying he needs to be a doctor or anything, but he certainly needs to get off his lazy ass and at least work 2 or 3 jobs if we need the extra money. I really dont see the problem with working from 9-5 and then coming home to go to another night job from say 6-12 at night or something. Its certainly not cheap getting my hair done 4-5 days a week or the manicures that I have pay just to set up a special appointment for. I mean what does he think? Its easy to do this all day??? Some days I have to wake up as early as 10 am. Not to mention the credit card bills I rack up every month as well. Last month's was over $10K. Besides the housekeeper and chef alone run at least $1,000 a week, sometimes more even.
Is it normal he wont get a third job even though I nag him incessantly about doing so and have even been spending MORE money to motivate him to do it.
Is it normal he wont get a third job even though I nag him incessantly about doing so and have even been spending MORE money to motivate him to do it.
How did this even make it through moderation?
I'll do it just once more:
So, you're telling me that the story above is true and you're not a troll, but rather the biggest bitch in existence...?
...and I'll stop now.
What a catch, my guess is you would be fighting them off.
Also, its obvious you're a troll, or stupid, as guesswho said.
You can't call "TROLL" and then proceed to get angry anyway, because then they've successfully trolled the shit out of you and you've lost their game.
Personally, I don't fucking give a shit.
Obvious trolls reply to everyone the way he/she is doing.
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AND STUPID! he just said he left HER. you married for money (cough lazyass) and you'll divorce the same. I bet the only reason hes still with you is so you dont take all his stuff. I feel sincerely sorry for the guy, please tell him that.
Your reply will confiem this.
Oh and people, please stop feeding the troll.
Not that you need to, but you can look it up in Urban Dictionary.
I barely have time with my facial appointments and other stuff. Just comment seriously or shut up already. You must be a man.
You seem to me to be very unappreciative and spoiled. Your man deserves better. It's more than normal that he wouldn't get a third job, aka suffer and torture himself, so you can paint your nails.
You want serious, there ya go.
Times have changed now and it's expected of both partners to pull their weight. He shouldn't be expected to do all the work while live off of him. You seem to live upperclass lives, but you won't be able to do that forever. Times are tough and things are expensive. Nothing is free or cheap. He shouldn't be expected to get yet another job, it's you that should get a job! Contribute!
Besides isnt it enough I spend my time trying to look good, for him?
No, you said you do the housework YOURSELF. Now the housekeeper only does some of the work?
The housekeeper doesnt live with us, she comes once or twice a week.
Or if your chef does the cooking, and you cook when the chef isn't around than what the fuck does your housekeeper do once or twice a week? Come over and masturbate on your couch while you watch?
And didn't you just fucking say that you do the housework yourself?
And yes I do the laundry and some other stuff myself. I have a lunch date with a gf soon, so piss off already.
All you do is housework? Your life sucks. You should try masterbating.
Also, if you want to get paid for looking good, maybe you should consider prostitution. Though, it seems you're doing so already.
You can't be worth the housekeeping, either, if you have a hired housekeeper.
Happy trolling.
And make it taste good this time!
He makes more money than your husband could shit if you shoved gold bars down his throat.
If you really were dedicated to being the housewife, you would do all the cooking, and do it well! You would make him breakfast, lay out his work clothes every morning and clean up the house throughout the day.
You're just his useless pet.
I wake up at 5 am EVERY morning to lay out my husband's work uniform and to cook breakfast for him before he goes to work. I also take care of the baby and all of the house work. I fix my own hair and paint my own nails. I am a stay at home mother, I do not work but when my husband gets home at night our house is spotless and all the laundry has been done and our son is well taken care of. Also dinner is on the table as soon as he walks in the front door. I wait on him hand and foot because he works 50 hours a week to support us. (If he wants a beer I bring him one, if he is hungry I will cook him anything he wants me to. I give him a back and neck rub after he eats and has his shower.)
YOU ARE NOT A HOME MAKER!!! YOU ARE A SELF-CENTERED SPOILED BRAT!!!
You're forgetting that back then you could live off of one check easily.
http://finances.msn.com/saving-money-advice/6952105
Read that article... back in the 50s you could earn enough to pay rent with less than a week of work. And that's on MINIMUM wage.
These days you have to work almost twice that just to pay rent.
Now if your husband doesn't mind then fine... but don't be surprised if he gets annoyed with having to support a fully functioning and capable adult.
Did you read the link I provided.
it's different because cost of living is higher.
And frankly if you're telling him "get off his lazy ass" to go provide you a life... I say you might find that's not the best way to motivate him to want to work for you.
I know plenty of men who would look at a statement like that and say "time to eject from this relationship"
so be careful what you ask for.
But I'd still like to bet money that a few of the people that read this will take it seriously, even though it is obviously a troll and get self-righteous with you.
Which is why I love this site.
Dumbasses.
I could have done a better job. Dumbass.
Trollololololol
You need to just let that anger go and stop being so jealous of my life.
Eat your heart out you jealous bitch.