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Is it normal that i love someone that desnt love me back?
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I have a friend. I've known him for 4 years now, and now I have the hots for him. Last year, we was my best friend, but I never developed feelings for him. But this summer, he hit me. I knew I loved him , but I didn't know it was like that until he started dating one of my friends and him started dating. I saw them kiss and hug and hold hands, and I wanted him so much. Yeah we kissed each other on the cheeks, but we were best friends, I mean thats just our nature. We hugged and held each others hands, but in a best friend kind of way. They weren't though. Well they finally broke up, and I thought now is my chance. Well I took it, and he took me. We broke up and I was devastated, but still in love. Well we started dating again, and lasted for about 2 months. We went down the drain. I was still in love with him, he was all I talked about. We talked and we had more in common than I did with anybody else. He told me he was hyper one night, and was just distracted by the playoffs, but I knew he was tired. I knew him more than he knew himself. He said he liked me a lot, that in fact he loved me, but he won't be with me for the world. IIN that I don't give up and keep going after him. I love him but he doesnt love me. IIN? Please tell me if i should give up or not! Help!
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RestaWulf
1 year, 4 months ago | pl
Well what people used to tell me is you can't change a persons feelings you can't tell them to do this or that. So you just have to deal with him for now.if you guys have been on and off for a while maybe its time to call it quits and move on to someone else. I'm a girl to trust me I know it's hard. But maybe you could sit down and talk with him about it? I don't know him so it's hard to tell you a straight answer.
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ilovesexytime
1 year, 4 months ago | pl
This is kinds similar to me with my ex :( I have realised that the best way to solve problems such as this is to get out and meet someone new. The chances are you will meet someone who becomes even more special to you in the future anyway. Good luck :)
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stonecutters93
1 year, 4 months ago | pl
I agree with restawulf, sit down with him and talk about it. I think you need to be firm though, tell him you want a straight answer of whether or not he wants to be with you. At least that way you'll get closure. But you may have to come to terms with moving on. I had to do it yesterday, I left a message for my best friend, the girl I love more than anything that I couldn't be part of her life because she doesn't love me.
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TightRedShirtPurpleSkinnyJeans
1 year, 4 months ago | pl
If you force him to do this it is most likely that he will just end up resenting you for putting him in a relationship he didn't want to be in in the first place. It will make you easier for him to blame if something goes wrong and get angry at you.

I agree with sexytime, you should try to meet someone new, who knows, he mightstart to miss you.

You can't force these things, you have to wait for him.
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