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Is it normal that I miss my cheating ex after 5 months?
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I broke up with this guy four or five months ago and still miss him despite the fact that he cheated around 11 times with various people. We were going out for a year and a half (18 months) and were really close friends before that. I was his first proper girlfriend and he was my first proper boyfriend, which I think adds to the heartache... The thing is, I feel guilty for dumping him because he was genuinely sorry and I know that, and also I know that he doesn't just go out with anyone, he really loved me. He has a new girlfriend now whom he seems happy with so I think I feel jealous, seeing as he told me before that it takes something reall special for him to have a girlfriend. the question basically is, should I still be missing him, feeling guilty, crying around four times a week over him, and wanting him back after four or five months?
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bigtoy
1 year, 9 months ago | pl
Funny that girls always want the bad guys and many guys go for the girls that treat them badly too. Must be the challenge, I guess.
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liiaaa3
1 year, 9 months ago | pl
11 times? Various people? Move on he never loved you.
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hellomylover
1 year, 9 months ago | pl
He may feel sorry but 11 times not cool he could have easily said no to all of them if he loved never settle for someone who doesn't care enough no turn down someone for you
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xoxo29
1 year, 9 months ago | pl
Well if he "doesn't just go out with anyone" then those 11 people he screwed must have been pretty special!! Hello?? Be happy you got rid of him!
Btw, get tested for std's/ sti's!!
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wise
1 year, 9 months ago | pl
Of course you're going to miss him, but you need to respect yourself and do yourself a favor by not thinking of him. If you make the effort, time will help you move on. Just stop thinking about him. You'll notice that it's your thoughts of him that make you miss him.
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zack538620
1 year, 9 months ago | pl
Without reading your story (no disrespect, but there is simply no need) You can't help who you love(/miss, same category)
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Treez
1 year, 9 months ago | pl
11 times n u feel like that
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Treez
1 year, 9 months ago | pl
Maybe if ubetter itself make a couple mil he won't do it ever again
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