I think my best friend is really, really ugly. I tell her she is pretty, because I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I actually think she is really ugly and not a very nice person.
She's really b**chy, can be really horrible to me and I don't see how she gets any guys at all. I do like her as a friend of course, and she can be really nice when she wants to be but she really makes me angry sometimes.
I don't think I'm really pretty or anything but I think I am better looking than her, and I don't see how she gets more guys than me at parties and stuff.
At the same time, I'd hate to be like her because she always gets really wasted when we go out or smoking too much weed and ends up throwing up everywhere and I end up looking after her, whereas I have only thrown up a couple of times when I first drank/smoked etc, and at these times she took the piss out of me for ages and told everyone, and basically really embarrassed me.
Haha, I've never told anyone this because I think its a really stupid way to feel. Is this normal?
She's really b**chy, can be really horrible to me and I don't see how she gets any guys at all. I do like her as a friend of course, and she can be really nice when she wants to be but she really makes me angry sometimes.
I don't think I'm really pretty or anything but I think I am better looking than her, and I don't see how she gets more guys than me at parties and stuff.
At the same time, I'd hate to be like her because she always gets really wasted when we go out or smoking too much weed and ends up throwing up everywhere and I end up looking after her, whereas I have only thrown up a couple of times when I first drank/smoked etc, and at these times she took the piss out of me for ages and told everyone, and basically really embarrassed me.
Haha, I've never told anyone this because I think its a really stupid way to feel. Is this normal?
she does this to herself to make herself feel better for a short period of time.
it is short because like i said above the guy screws her then leaves her.
you are a better person for not giving yourself away that easy. make the guys work to earn you.
you should be treated like a queen.
and i agree w the person above you probably will lose connection with her in the future if you continue to feel the same way.
she will only bring you down. you must focus on yourself and surround yourself with good people and good friends. people who have self confidence and aren't idiot drug addicts and alcoholics. these good people will bring you up. they will also treat you wonderful and have your back for whatever.
ps it is normal to feel the way you do
pss: it doesn't matter that she gets more guys than you because the guys she gets treat women like garbage. so you don't want to be around anyone who treats women (or girls) like shit
She's only getting guys because she's easy. Trust me on this, I'm not bad looking and I never get hit on. Because I'm a "straight edge" (no drugs/drinking/smoking) and damn confident. I have never been hit on in my life. I asked my boyfriend out because he was too shy to approach me! You don't need to be worried about that.