I am 19 Female good looking and so confused by boys relationships and sex. I am a virgin but want to lose it. But when i get the chance to i freak out and say how stupid i am. I nearly got in a relationship bur i found out the guy lied about his age being 30. So i ran. Also have to other guys who just want to have sex and thats it. I have anxiety and find it hard to talk to people. I really want a nice boyfriend and not just to be used. But i am to shy to even talk to them and if i try i dont know what to say. Is this Normal?
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a regular relationship with a guy is one thing...but adding sex to the mix can increase the chance for being used. that being said its not true for all guys, but for some it is, so when going for that relationship dont pick up guys with sex.
1. Read a newspaper every morning before leaving so you have something to talk about.
2. As Fonzy said don't bring sex into a relationship too early.
3. Go to places where your skills will be appreciated or useful, find people you have something in common with.
4.DON'T be negative but DON'T be a pushover.
5.Treat everyone as you would your best friend (without the contact).
The best way to get a boyfriend is to have a boy that is your friend, first. If you're just jumping into relationship after relationship it's not going to work. If you're talking to every guy as a potential mate, that may be your problem. Get to know them, take an interest in them, they take an interest in you and it goes from there.
They say for girls it's a vgood sign they like a guy and I say it's vise verse too .
Lots of people only connect with just that someone special, and he'll probably feel the same anyway so - ease up on yaself .
Shy people mainly click with someone - not everyone , nothin wrong with that !
you're not shy, you're mysterious