Is it normal that I want to forgive my girlfriend after her cheating

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A woman puts herself on that position. Nobody forces her to drink at a party, or to get drunk. And excuse me, but bleach_baby, if you cheat at all you're out the fuckin door. Some of us choose partners that they trust and respect. Evidently you're the minority here.

Furthermore, I find it highly disagreeable that a majority of women will frown upon promiscuous behavior, only to turn around, get plastered, and cheat on her bf. As a male, I revel in the fact that I've had sex with many women. Filthy nasty scary sex. As soon as you women quit treating your vaginas like they're the Holy Womb, maybe there won't be such a glaring double standard when it comes to sex. Think like a man and let's do this thing.

Lastly, dump the bitch. She put herself in that position, proceeded to get the pipe laid to her and violate you relationship. There is no forgivness for that behavior. Move on and find someone you can trust, and who can also give you the same amount of respect you give her.

So in love and she cheated? What makes you think she won't do it again? I wouldn't trust her if I were you but it's up to you in the end.

Is this the same person who asked if it was normal for their girlfriend to go to a sleepover party with guys on their 1yr anniversary? If it is, she knew beforehand guys were gonna be there and she still went so it sounds planned and break up with her stankass! If its not, if she is willing to cheat after only a year; do you feel like this is a sustainable relationship and she wont ever do it again? The answer is within yourself.

Do you really want to spend the rest of your relationship wondering if she's cheating on you again? The trust factor is already been broken. Of course you want to forgive her but if you stay with her, you will never be able to fully trust her again. How can you have a meaningful relationship with someone you can't fully trust? Being drunk is no excuse, unless you were passed out and raped.

I don't agree with the saying I was drunk lie. When you are drunk you may not use the best judgement. But you still know right from wrong leave her alone she may have contracted a disease it's not worth it love her enough to leave her just my .02

Never stay with someone who cheats on you. Period. She has completely disrespected you and is obviously not inlove. You deserve to be treated right. Recognize lol

Drunk mind speaks a sober heart..

People have to stop blaming things on the alcohol! If you're wasted and wanna have sex, you're gonna have sex.. If you don't wanna have sex, then you won't.. It obviously wasn't an accident my dude.

Simple as that.

She probably had thoughts about it before if she did it drunk. Tell her to make you a sandwich and get out of your life.

Love is one thing but for someone to cheat is another. Don't allow the fact that she was drunk cloud your judgement. That's the oldest excuse in the book. Furthermore, what's she gonna do the next time she gets drunk.

How many situations like that do you think you'd tolerate before you were bothered enough to end it with her?

^This.

^^agree
Anyway, she will do it again. If u forgive her now then she will do it again because she thinks you will let her off the hook again. Nobody is worth this. She can't be trusted and did something wrong. I don't care if she is drunk, you can still control yourself. What kind of person cheats in someone who they supposedly love?

Alcohol isn't an excuse. I've never NOT been able to say no when drinking. Shes full of shit.

I would give her another chance, but be prepared she might do it again...

Fuck her off, no second chances. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

I think the people saying no you shoudn't try to make it work are immature. People do get drunk and make terrible mistakes. As long as she told you a\bout it, was very apologetic and is taking steps to ensure it doesnt happen again (eg not drinking so much) then if your relationship is worth it, you should forgive her

love does not cheat hun. better off finding someone else. the best ones come when your not looking though.

unlike many of the above posters, i think it's really nice of you to want to give a second chance. If she truly loves you she should feel ashamed and depressed over her error, if her guilt is genuine I think there's faith she won't ever let it happen again. However, if it does, id have to say my advice would be to move on from her, because she is selfish and has a serious comitment problem, or just a serious whore problem, either way.

Forgive her everyone makes mistakes

You a sucka if you have her stick around...

well if you want to work it out with her then do that but if she cheats on you again, i would break it off.

well she was at a party trying to make new friends because she just moved to Cali, and as drank because that's what everyone else was doing and she wanted to fit in..

Forgive her, but dont let her get away with it i beg. She will take an advantage of you. Play a little hard to get now. Make her win your love and trust back. if she doesnt try to. She not worth keeping