OK so basically I am 18 years old. Since I was a little girl my father has always compared me to my mother. She's not the best of examples with the alcohol and smoking and kids and bad living conditions but she's my mother and there's nothing I can do about that. I have a boyfriend and I really like my dad and my step don't agree. My dad threatens him all the time and get very angry with me even when I'm on the phone with him. He says I'm not going to be anything or do anything with my life because of that and that I'm just like my mother. How can I get him to just stop? or what else do I need to do? I really don't know what to do at this point and I'm getting to the point where I'm just ready to graduate (Which is in a few months) and move on.