I've just turned 19 and I'm going to be a sophomore in college. I'm still a virgin, and still haven't had a girlfriend. I've only kissed one girl in my life. I'm not a total loser, I'm just a late bloomer, and look like really young for my age. I also went to a really small high school, so around 60% of my graduating class graduated a virgin. I'm still really scared and paranoid, that I'll never have sex and I'll die without ever having a family. Is it normal to have these fears?
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If you live a normal healthy life you still have a good 70-80 years ahead of you. Do you really think not getting laid in the first fraction of your life means you'll be a virgin forever?
Pussy will come your way too, the less you stress about it, the faster it'll happen. Besides it ain't such a great conquest. A few hours of sweaty exercise (good for your core muscles, though), stuff your johnson into a wet, stinky place and pray to God that skank doesn't have chlamydia. Alright, it does get better when you have a partner you like, but still...
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Good Sense of Humor
Good Taste(in clothing and life)
A sense of direction - this is important because very few women that are truly worth your time will give even the slightest bit of a damn about an idiot who has no drive and no goals in life.
CONFIDENCE! This one is important...probably the most important, and I will tell you why, and this isn't just for girls either, this is for LIFE.
If you don't have any Confidence in yourself you speak in a shy tone, you speak in unclear inconfident terms, you are afraid to speak up, you are afraid to make yourself KNOWN. This is the first thing to combat in the fight to rid yourself of Virginity and prepare you for life! If it seems like the douchebags always get the hot girls there are noted reasons why, they are typically very full of themselves and therefore have an abundance of Confidence in themselves and make forceful statements, not inquisical statements. For Example -
"Lets have dinner sometime." sounds much better than
"Would you like to have dinner sometime" ofcourse she'd like to have dinner sometime, she does eat...people do that kind of thing. The Key is with confidence, in whatever situation, has to be put out there so others can acknowledge it. When you go in for an interview for a job even, if you are unsure of yourself, then they will be unsure of YOU. Women are the same way, you need to make sure that they know you are PREPARED! That you are CONFIDENT! That you know what you want in life, and that THEY are what you WANT...Now once you have let them know that they have caught your eye and your confidence has caught theirs, it's time to let them know everything else about you. Confidence and getting that IN is the biggest leap for many, especially people from smaller schools. After that it's about connecting, and making sure that she knows who you are, and you know who she is, and that you're not there for a one nighter. Slutty girls who do one nighters don't care about confidence, they usually care about how big the buldge in the pants is. Occasionally the silver tongued wonder douches do sweep in, turn a girl into a one nighter by lying through every pore in their body and get lucky, but you have to be the better Man, make sure when you connect with a woman and you both like each other, to fight for that connection and to fight for her. Just getting into a relationship isn't a guarantee of success, after the confidence, good taste, and good sense of humor gets you in...it's your personality's job to keep you in there.
Fat people usually look younger than thin people but they certainly aren't healthier lol. It's all genetics, my nan looked twice as young as my grandfather, but she lived half as long. It's just luck. Footballers have droped dead at thirty of a heart attack and smokers have lived to be a hundred.
p.s.
I had a 1 year old son when I met my husband
I'm an 18 year old girl and I've never done anything.
I mean, in grade 7 I dated my friend for two weeks...
We played soccer together... that's it.. I don't think I even liked him romantically.
So it doesn't really count hahaha.
ANYWAY, (sorry, got off the topic), It sucks doesn't it.
But, I mean, maybe it means that you wont just settle for anyone, because your soul knows who it's looking for?
If that sounds cheesy, you can hire a hooker?
Hehehehe.