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Is it normal that my best friend lets me suck his dick while "asleep?"
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Okay this is kind of a long story but I will try to keep it simple. I am an 19 yr old gay male and have been in love with my 19 yr old male best friend for the last 3 years. We have been good friends for the last 4 years or so, but have only been really close for the last 3 years. He claims he is straight and I am pretty sure he has never had any gay interaction with anyone except for me. He has had a girlfriend in the past, and I know he has had sex with at least 3 girls. But usually we never talk about girls with one another and he never brings them up ever.

For the first 2 years of our friendship, I was still in the closet completely and so he did not know I was gay, but I would make it seem very obvious to him by the way I acted and the way I treated him/things I did for him. I was the best friend he could ever ask for, and more. I went out of my way every day to do things for him and treated him like we were dating, constantly complimenting him and such, and he would kind of do the same to me, except never to the extent I did. Also, we joked around gayly very very often, usually touching each others asses or saying provocative things to one another. Also, we never discussed girls, and I never heard him once say "oh she's hot" or something like that (which is strange for straight males, because I know from experience when its 2 straight guys talking almost always one will mention something about girls, and at this time he still thought I was straight).

We have sleepovers usually every weekend or every other weekend, so I would see a lot of him. One time when he sleptover, I began to touch him penis through his pants. I was so nervous that he would wake up, but he didn't. Instead, he got a boner from me touching his dick. I then was too nervous to do anything else.

A few weeks later after more sleepovers like this, I undid his pants and began giving him a handjob (while he is "asleep"). I was too nervous to finish so I didn't. A few weeks later, I proceeded to give him head while he is asleep. We were high this time, and I kept going until he finished. He woke up as he was cumming, and freaked out, but went back to sleep as I pretended I was asleep. The next day he asked about it, and I told him the truth. He was extremely pissed off and said he doesn't trust me. Our friendship was awkward for a few days, but then a week or so passed and he acted as if nothing happened and our friendship was back to normal (he even joked around gayly again with me and was touchy).

Eventually, I came out of the closet and was completely comfortable with it. So when it came time, I talked to him one on one and told him that I was gay and had extremely strong feelings for him. I told him I have felt that way for a long time and that I've never felt the same about anyone else. I asked him if he felt the same, and he said no. He told me he was completely straight and isn't in love with me, although he loves me as a friend. I was happy with the way he took it, because he said this doesn't change our friendship, but also very upset because he didn't reciprocate the feelings I had for him. I told him I would try to get over him and move on, and he said that's fine you can't change how you feel.

So we continued our friendship as usual and hungout a lot and we still had sleepovers every weekend or so. We both go to the same college now, and when we are drunk we meet up a lot of the time. At school, he would sleepover at my dorm every 3 weekends or so (because my roommate left a lot) and the same thing would happen where he would pretend to fall asleep and I would suck his dick (always a little drunk or high). This happened 3 or 4 times, and then one time he woke up in the morning with his pants unbuttoned and flipped a shit. He got really pissed and left my dorm room (I pretended like I was asleep). He didn't mention it after except one time when I pissed him off he brought it up and was using it against me.

This has happened again and again, now for a total of about 7 or 8 times, and a few of the times we even makeout and kiss a little before I suck his dick. Some of the times, the morning after, he would wake up and say, "I don't remember anything after I got to your dorm." Also, he usually tells me before we go to sleep, "I'm so tired, I'm going to fall asleep soooo fast" and will say things like "I am such a heavy sleeper nothing wakes me up." So this week, he sleptover two nights in a row and I gave him head 3 times in those two nights (we were drunk and high one of the nights and just high the next). I am absolutely positive that he was awake for all 3 times I did it. I knew he was awake because he made little moans while I was doing it and also when he was cumming he twitched and made noises and such. Also, I was not even being very careful with my movements to try to not wake him up. I kicked his leg a few times on accident, was moving up and down on the bed (therefore causing it to shake) while I gave him head, and it was definitely enough to wake ANYONE. Yet, afterwards he has said nothing about it and wants to hangout again tonight.

I have a strong feeling he knows I give him head and he really enjoys it. A lot of the time at school he will text me at 1 or 2 in the morning wanting to come over to my dorm when we are drunk (I feel he does this because he is horny and he wants me to suck his dick). He gets a boner so easily when I barely touch his dick and he clearly enjoys what I'm doing. I feel like he kind of is just taking advantage of me because I do this and he likes it (but I do too obviously). Last time it happened, we cuddled a lot afterwards too and he laid there with me and put his arm across my stomach (I am pretty sure he was still awake).

I am so confused by him now. He hasn't said he is gay or loves me, but is always flirting with me still and gets very very touchy a lot of the time (especially when he is drunk he just randomly starts tickling me and touching me). Does anyone have any advice!!?? Should I confront him about this (because I kind of want to) or should I leave it? Is he using me for a bj or is he gay and actually likes me but is too uncomfortable and insecure to come out!? I just would like other's opinions please :) thanks!
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darthrule
Is his dick as long as this post? If so, be careful that you don't choke on it.
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Funniest thing you have ever said.
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darthrule
No Way! I was showing my wife the same picture of that owl being petted!I swore to her I was gonna get a baby owl lol
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'tis awesome, right?
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darthrule
Yeah it almost looks fake. Have you seen teacup pigs? They are tiny and real cool. Apparently they are smart, they respond to their names and run to you when you call them lol
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I have but not in person.
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Seems like he's taking advantage of your sexual favours, but doesn't want to know about it because of the stigma attached to it. Get over him or run for the hills. You're only gonna get disappointed.
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It's really odd that he's pretending to fall asleep but then losing his shit when you accidentally make it obvious that you've given him a BJ? it's really confusing and I'd recommend you get out of there ASAP
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Try making a move on him when he's ACTUALLY AWAKE, drunk or not. It's weird that you say he's into it while he's "pretending" to be asleep, then flips shit when he wakes up. Honestly it makes it sound like he's for reals asleep and you're just telling yourself that he's awake to make yourself feel better. On the other hand, what kind of grown-ass straight man goes for weekly "sleepovers" at his male friend's house? I mean, passing out at a buddy's house once in a while when you're too drunk to drive home is one thing, but it sounds like he makes a point of having a two man slumber party at your place.
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He loves every lick........he is lying and just sitting back and having his cock sucked to completion with NSA! Selfish bastard should put a mouth on your cock and repay the pleasure of opening your legs and screaming "I'm gonna cum!!" Pow!!!!!! Let it all out!!!!!! Yeah!!!!!
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@: mcalobe
This is freaking hilarious xD
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Ikr
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You shouldn't have sex with someone when they're drunk or high.
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I think he really likes you and you should not think badly of him. He likes what you are doing to him and he also wants to make you happy! So, don't think that he is using you, because you first started to use him, right? That's what brothers are for, and in your case you are just friends. If you don't make a problem out of your fear that you are being used, then you will definitely have him as a friend forever, because he went over his feelings of being just a friend of yours or something more and deeper. He is your best friend, and you should have no other one than him. If you do, that will really piss him off! Do you understand, dude?
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