Hi, i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and lately i've tried to meet new people because my current friends mostly don't care or take me for advantages. So i saw this guy at a Rock festival weeks ago and we started talking on the internet. He was a nice guy, he didn't flirt nor gave me one single compliment ! It was very casual ...and my boyfriend went mad at me for talking to him, even when i was home and totally bored. I told him many times i just wanted new friends, seems like he never heard me. He got annoyed anytime the guy would write to me. I decided not to take it too seriously, i've never been unfaithful to him and i'm not a flirty person. Then the other day i went to meet the guy and hes friends...but when i came back my boyfriend was pissed at me. He was very angry and anxious,he talked about me the whole night...he thought our relationship was in trouble and told me to never go see him again or completely delete him.The thing is, i feel like this unfair. Now i met another guy friend ...which he totally approved of ?!
Is this normal ?
Is this normal ?
Now if he has been doing this to you throughout your relationship then it is doubtful that his behavior will change now but if not then my advice to you is to assure him that this guy is just a friend. Make sure that while you two are together you are not occupying yourself with this new friend and have him come and hang out with you guys so he'll feel more comfortable with them. He should trust you enough not to have to have it proven to him that you're not up to anything but as I said, most people would feel a little odd about their girlfriend or boyfriend spending quite a bit of their attention on a member of the opposite sex so suddenly.
And there was a time when we took a couple of weeks break from one another and guess who made a move after almost 3 years of *innocent* friendship? both of them.
Not every cautious guy is a raging jealous asshole.
The guy you're "friends" with probably is interested in you in more ways than you're interested in him. Men don't just befriend women who they aren't attracted to or want some type of future romance with. It's in our nature.