Ok, so Im pretty pissed because my boyfriend of 1.5 years didnt do anything nice for me on Valentines day even though I did something big for him. Just to clarify, I dont expect a lot, just a small token of his appreciation such as a card or a nice phone call. I am not materialistic and we dont get to see each other a lot because of his busy schedule. Its not like he gives me gifts and takes me out during the year, so I get really excited near Valentines day in hope that he will do something nice for me that isnt done normally. Before hand I asked if we could see each other on Valentines day but he said he was too busy because he had to do some stuff at work (bullshit excuse, he was only at work until 5:00pm). I accepted that, and figured I would get him a gift he could open without me being present. I decided to get him a netflix subscription for 12 months which cost me almost 100 dollars. I sent it to him on Valentines day along with an email saying how much I appreciate our relationship. He texted me in the afternoon saying "Happy Valentines day, thanks for the gift, why did you spend so much money?" and that was the only contact we had all day. He didnt even bother to call me or do anything at all, even though last year he bought me chocolates and took me out for lunch (not on valentines day but a few days after since he was busy). Am I selfish for being pissed that he didnt do more when all my friends had their boyfriends spoil them to death? Would it kill him to at least send me a loving email? Even if money is an issue, he can always just send me an e-card or write a card himself...He also didnt make plans to see me any time this week (we only see each other every few weeks because of his stupid "schedule").