I'm 24 and my man's 30. I have a son with another man, who I have no contact with and my son's never even meant. My new man and I had a baby together in August. I got pregnant the first time we had sex. I had only known him for 4 months. He was great to my son before I got pregnant and during the pregnancy. Now that our daughters born, he's mean to him. He says it has nothing to do with him having his own child now. He says my son-who just turned 2-doesn't listen and makes messes. (well..he is 2..) My son loves his baby sister very much and loves to touch her nose and rub her head and kiss her..sometimes a little rough but she doesn' cry or seem to mind the roughness to much.. but my boyfriend gets mad. He in turns does to my son what my son was doing to the baby (poking nose, rubbing head) only he does WAY to roughly. And he doesn't understand why any of this behavior bothers me. He feels I "baby" my son. He calls him a sissy, a crybaby, a moma's boy, "just jokingly" kicks him out of his house. I understand his fustrations with the messes and spirited behavior but I don't think he handles it in a mature or helpful way.