My boyfriend seems up for a 3-some with another guy and is even up for giving head. I'm thinkin (and he is) that he might be bi but the thought of snogging another bloke really grosses him out. He fooled around with his guy friends (hand jobs only) when he was about 13/14 on a couple of occasions. It doesn't bother me if he is bi but the snogging thing is whats confusing the situation. Anyone shed any light?

Being gay is about being attracted to the whole person, kissing them, wanting to be with them, loving them. I'll guarantee your boyfriend would say he could never be in love with another man. But there's one thing that turns him on, and he can only get it from a man's body. It's that one thing he wants, not the man as a whole. That's why he doesn't want to kiss a man or cuddle or anything else like that.