My dad used to yell at me all the time. If something went wrong with my mom, he would tell me it was my fault. He used to twist my arm to get my attention until I thought he would break it. He often would grab me around the neck to choke me enough to scare me. He would often lie on top of me so I couldn't move and cover my mouth and nose at the same time so I couldn't breathe. He burned me with my curling iron if I forgot to unplug it. If my mom caught him doing anything she thought was too far, he would make up some lie about something I did to make her angry with me instead of him. I still think about these things and am still angry with him, but a significant part of me says I should stop being a baby. Which of my reactions are normal?