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Is it normal that my I want to kill my mom?
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Hi there. My mom is such a complete jerk. Not just in the regular, everyday way, either. She is constantly yelling at me, cussing me out, preventing me from effectively doing my homework (I am trying to be an honors student), and assigning me pointless and time-consuming punishments for no apparent reason and with no explanation. I am just wondering, does anyone out there have parents like this that they just want to seriously kill they are so mean to their kids? Also, my dad is great, it is just mom that is a jerk.
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^ I can relate completely to the above post. I understand 100%
For the entirety of my 18 years of life, I have been relentlessly criticized and psychologically abused by my mom. We have never gotten along which is preposterous to me, because as a mother (already with an older child) how can you NOT GET ALONG with your own child? How do you scream and get angry and mistreat your child for being themselves.. My sister has tried to tell me that I'm partially at fault, but the way I see it is a child cannot fully comprehend the repercussions of certain actions while an adult CAN.
I hate my mom, I often just want to kill or beat her up... Though obviously I would never act on these thoughts. I am sane, afterall. But living with her causes me to believe that I'm no less crazy than she is, because all of the trauma and abuse has turned me into a person I never intended to be. I need to get out of here ASAP, this is a madhouse, and yet all of this shit keeps me from being motivated enough to get on the right path in life.... Fuck. :/ My dad died when I was 15 and it tore me apart, because he was the only level-headed person in the house who was able to mediate between my mom and I when we clashed. I've said to her that the wrong parent died and I've thought it to myself since the day he passed away... But deep down I now that isn't right to say and I'm sure my mom is here driving me insane for a reason... Hopefully I come out stronger from it, otherwise I'm going to kill myself.
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I feel you so much and sorry for your loss. My dad, although not dead but not in the picture was a very calm happy person. I wish I could be with my dad and not with my mom. I say duke it out there and live your life. Once you move out, it'll be a chapter in your life you'll never have to reopen. It only gets better afterward.
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My mom and dad are both jerks who insult and hit me constantly. I have tried several attempts to run away but dam are they good. I escpecially want to see my mom out of my life and one to hell. Fucken BICHES thses days.
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I have thought (numerous times) about how I could kill my mother and hopefully get away with it. Obviously, I would not do it (mainly, because I know I would get caught, and if I didn't get caught I would be so guilt-ridden from killing her that the whole thing would just be counterproductive)- but it still doesn't prevent me from thinking about it. My sister says my mother will live to be 100 because she is so mean and such a bitch. She is turning 80 soon and I agree she is going to live another 20 years to make sure she drives us totally insane (which wouldn't take much in my case). Sometimes I wish she would just drop dead now, so this way I could have a half-way decent life(I blame most of my problems on her). In fact, I have a bad feeling I am going to be the one to craok off first because of the STRESS from dealing with her pyscho ass.I know this sounds horrible, but if any reading this had a mother like mine you would realize why I feel this way. She is a total bitch and a big ass phony and was abusive when we were growing up. Now that we are adults there are times I think that things might be different and get better- they never do. Sad.
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i'm a %100 Asshole my mom yells at me sometimes i talk back and dance while she do it >_> lol
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haha, that is so funny. think i'll try that, next time me and mother argue and she keeps on fighting i'll just start dancing something silly
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It would be abnormal NOT to hate her. My mother was jealous and abusive to me. She loved my much younger brother and sister. She didn't want me around b/c she couldn't lie about her age. When I was pregnant, she wanted me to abort b/c she didn't want to be a young grandmother. She lives with me now and I take very good care of her. I still want to slap her sometimes. There is such irony in how the person you abused becomes your caretaker. Make the best of it; it will end. And "what goes around, comes around". It never fails.
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I've wondered about killing my mother many, many times. And even though I'm sure that it'll make things a whole lot easier for me and my siblings, since it would stop all the shit she has put us through and is putting us through, I doubt that it'll make me feel better.
But I can relate to your story, and I'm just happy that my mom isn't the only one that has this tendency to bully her kids to misery.
I wish I could say hang in there, it'll get better, but it's been an ongoing stuggle for me for 23 yrs now, and the best you can do is leave her behind at the first oppertunity you've got and never ever look back, no matter how hard that may seem.
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I completely understand how you feel. I've been feeling this way about my mother for some time now. I have to stifle myself everyday from wanting to shove a sock down her mouth from making one more mean, hateful comment towards me. Tonight, she made the accusation that I was using my charity work as an excuse to be an alcoholic. I have maybe a drink a month. I'm not home a lot because I work full-time, do school full-time and try to occupy spare time by helping other people. No matter how much good I do, there's always something that she can berate me for or accuse me of lying about. Sometimes, you get the short end of the stick and get stuck with a crazy parent. The only thing you can do is to keep making yourself a better person and then distancing yourself from the toxicity of your mother when the time comes. In the mean time, yes, it is normal to want to kill her.
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Of course parents can be abusive! Is your dad able to do more to protect you from her random rules & punitiveness? Also, do approach your school for support for yourself. Its one thing for her to be irritating, another to be affecting your ability to get on with your life in school & your mental health.
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hockeyboy
What types of punishments and for what
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Is your name, by any chance, Jessica? O.o
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im the author and i just wanted to say thanks, but my school doesnt have a counselor and the communtiy one is an ass
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That sound pretty normal to me.

To give you some perspective. My parents prepared me and my sister with all their finances and life insurance information incase anything were to happen to them while they went abroad. After seeing the life insurance was value at nearly six figures, I was excited and half-hoping something would happen. Now, thats messed up considering my parents are great and my brothers were going with them.
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You should talk with your mum straightly and make her realize what she is doing. Get help from your other family members.
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my mother is a fucking bitch and thinks he's a better person than me. she should be thankful i'm an obedient daughter and even doesn't smoke, she should be thankful she's still alive because if this psychological torturement continues, she'll lose her head by tomorrow.. this morning my intention to kill her just buried inside as always, i'm not a fucking stupid to be a murderer and ruin all my future plans. It's only money than bind us, and i'm so disgusted. she doesn't give anything to me except money and a lot of ugly moments. i wish she lost her head today.
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My advice is simple: Stab the fucking whore when she's asleep! Or if you prefer, behead her! After all's said and done, run as fast and as far as possible from where you live.
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I can also relate completely. First, I want to say that we are all sane people. Given the circumstance (in this case an extremely abusive mother) anyone would want to kill their mother. It's not just for show. I have seen some pretty grotesque stuff and have had vivid dreams of me killing my mother and that hasn't killed off my thoughts. My mom is unfair to levels you couldn't imagine. She expects me to have a job while she splurges on pointless expenses like a new car and drugs. She has extreme bipolar and anger issues. She is an extreme negaholic. I would love my mom to commit suicide so that I wouldn't take any heat. Like I said, I am completely sane and as for everyone who can relate could only feel like this if they've gone through years of this. Wanting to kill your mom is normal!! Just don't do it. You've got your whole life ahead of you. Your life isn't worth her pathetic worthless life. Let her suffer slowly through the rest of it
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it is normal. my asshat of a mother is exactly the same, two minutes ago she called me lazy for not helping her tidy her own room because i have to do an assignment... mothers are assholes
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I can totally understand how you feel. My mother uses me as a scapegoat for her health problems and is practically aggressive when whining on about them. When I was studying for a degree she would come into my room and moan to put me off. She did the same thing when I was taking a qualification through work it was so bad I gave up on the course and lost out on the chance of progressing my career. I've had people at work assuming I'm gay cos I'm single (I'm NOT gay) I can't tell them that if I ever did meet someone the old cow would do her best to get rid of them cos as I said she needs a scapegoat on tap. She wants to be the center of attention she hates it when I'm ill. My brother moved out and the attitude to him is completely different Mom didn't moan at him when he rings up Mom will play down the health problems she's just been giving me shit over. If you're suffering the same kind of mental torture then yep it is normal to want to get rid of the source
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I don't know if it is normal. I'm turning 16 in December and all my life I hated my 'mother' she beats me all the time, abuses me until everything is swollen and bruised. I wish she was shot dead in the head, at times I wish I was put up for adoption and other times I nearly felt like jumping out the window.
I have self-harmed before I regret that everytime she hits me I write it down onto my phone it helps with my anger she favours my other siblings over me understand I wish she was tortured and executed instead of other innocent civilians. I have always promised to myself when I grow up and have children..I will never ever let them go through the hurt and pain I went through.
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I have a friend exactly like that. Same situation. I don't thnk she wants to kill her though...
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My heart breaks for you to want to kill ANYone. You must hurt a lot. Please pray for your mother, she needs it, and get away from her as soon as possible, she is toxic, and totally unappreciative of you. You can come live with us if you want, you sound like a fine young person, well, except for the wanting to kill your mother thing. Your community most likely has a counseling center and I recommend you go talk to someone...if you can't do that, your school counselor should help you. I will pray for you!
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yup, fil like keelin her.she spanks me 4 no reason
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