Is it normal that my mom acts like this?

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Dont let her get to you, show her your not worthless !

That sucks for you

God can not help you. God will not change your mothers behaviour. This is not normal. if you are harming yourself, you should seek help from a health professional.

I think getting involved in a Christian community is a good idea. Toucan talk to the pastor or make friends who will really want to help you. But yeah her behavior is not normal and you don't deserve that I went through the same thing at your age. Just be strong and try to worry about what makes you happy who cares about what she thinks.

I would also try to refrain from cutting. I have hideous scars on my arms that I hate. I almost died once seriously try to stop it now before it gets out of control and if you think you don't care about the scars now (that's what I thought at the time) you will later on in life.

To add onto ck38, get professional help, not only for yourself but for your mother as well

I am so sorry your living with a lady that is called a mother . Very sad!!!! Please seek help for you first. You need to build your self esteem!! Then get your mom help! (first have someone slap some since into your mom! WTF is wrong with her!!?)
I wish you well and luck.

Jerkoff^^ go bumb yourself she doesnt need that

That's awful and the last thing you want to hear from your mother. Seek help and support, feeling like you have no one at all is really not good.

Ah, I used to cut too... Havent for a few weeks but hell the scars are not worth it... Your mum is probably depressed and has been for a while, maybe a postbirth depression? Do something to make her proud, get her a gift? emulate your love for her because she may be hurting just as much as you, hug her tight even if she struggles keep hugging her and repeat that you love her no matter what. Trust me, the people I live with are 100 times worse and I can still sweeten them up.

dont cut urself u twat

I will pray for you. In order to get through this u need God. It sounds strange but it is true. Life can be really hard, and I am sorry for what u are going through. I want to ask and urge you to please come to the facebook page Disciples For Christ. You will meet really nice caring people who wont judge you, but they truly care and want to help you. Please consider joining, I hope to see you there!