Some people say they'll never get married but then they end up doing it when they're older. Are they normal? Why would they say "no" then do the opposite and say "yes" to marriage a few years later? It doesn't make sense.
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Think about it. If 80% of marriages ended in divorce, then most people you know would either have divorced parents or be divorced themselves. Unless you meet all your friends at divorcee social clubs, his obviously isn't the case. Maybe you should look up statistics before you post them, or at least think about them a little harder.
Where is he now?
... Dead.
Gf caught him cheating. Shot him and the bitch he was with :^|
I miss you marcus.
I'm so sorry but the way you typed that shit had me lmfao.
Sorry to hear about your friend, but he'd probably rather be dead then married.
He was a cool guy. I tried to tell him his gf was a crazy bitch but he never listened.
Shit happens right? Lol
well, he did love her enough to get married, so I guess it was what he wanted.
Fucking kids, man. They're all lairs! Every last one of 'em!
I like the idea of having a party and celebrating a long and successful relationship, so I'm not anti-marriage. But any marriage I have I'd hope would be secular, unconventional and fun. If I never get married I doubt I'll care.
I knew a guy that worked for the NYPD that swore for many many years that he would never marry. He was a straight up ladies man, clubbed on weekends, had a different woman in his bed every so often and so on and so forth. He thought that the idea of marriage was stupid and only an idiot would entrust his finances and life to a woman.
What's he doing now, you ask? Oh, he is living with his wife in her native country.
We love to have ideals and make definite statements. They are the staples and foundation of who we are and our beliefs.
But life happens.
It's like a earthquake rocked your house and you are left to pick up the pieces off the floor, you spend hours/days/months/years trying to glue tiny pieces back together. I understand why some people don't want to get married, that ultimate fear of being put through the pain again.
But I think you are speaking of being remarried rather than just married. Those who've never been married don't really know what that earthquake is to not want to relive it.
However, they don't know how wonderful it is, or can be, to share a life and yourself with a person/s you love either. Because even if it has been shattered, it existed. And probably made you happy for a while.
Disclaimer: I'm not in any way endorsing marriage or remarriage.