Is it normal that the guy wich says that he loves me,punched me?

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I think it doesn't have to do with anything he might feel about you. I suspect he comes from a troubled home, so he has grown violent. People like that DOES need help, BUT, if you get romantically involved with one, you are going to get hurt. Getting romantically involved with a troubled person makes you vulnerable. They are not bad though. They need help. But, I repeat, it is NOT advisable to get romantically involved with one.

For your own sake, I would suggest you end the romantic relationship with him. But if you really love him, you could choose to help him as a friend. However, this could be risky for you, so maybe you could just leave and seek outside help for him.

Violent people are victims of their own frustrations and traumas, so they often get it out on others, even the people they love the most.

I pictured a guy with Tourette's syndrome and it made me laugh.

"I can't live without you WANKER TOUCH MY PENIS HEY HEY NO i'M GAY.

If he doesn't have adorable Tourette's, and the slap wasnt a misplaced tic then you are setting yourself up for I lifetime of hurt.

"I'm going home, gonna load my shot gun
Wait by the door and light a cigarette..."

Gunpowder and Lead-it's a song by Miranda Lambert. It's a good song...and it could help you with your situation.

Regardless of how he feels about you, it is not enough to outway the bad. Love -if he does love you- is not enough to go through this. Staying with him with him won't prove your love for him. If you stay, your own self-worth will shatter. You'll never look at yourself with any respect. He will never respect you. If you want to prove you love him, get him help and stay his friend.

He sounds abusive. Don't get in a relationship with him, instead get away from him while you still can! Alert someone to the situation.

hit him back :3

Honey, of this guy put a hand on you, no love should keep you with him! Why don't you punch him back and leave him. Domestic violence and love are entirely different things.

I once raised my hand on my gf but stopped mid way..Yes its normal..But honestly I regret it to this day..

Nope, not hard to understand at all.

slaps u once, then a punch then a stab next thing u no ur chainsawed into little pieces buried under his front porch. no love there

Kill him

depends on the situation. if you cheated on him, acted like a total bitch, etc. then Yeah. I mean put yourself in his shoes. Most girls would slap a guy who cheated on them, lied, etc etc.

on the other hand if its just random violence, no.

thanks a lot guyes :) i broke with him, and Nola.Soul.Jah the reason why he slapt was his morbid jealousy,and i can say that during the three month i was under stress just because he didn't believe that girl like me could love the boy like him...everyday i kick up a row at home(my mom didn't like him)i defend and always justified...and what hurt me the most was that he didn't send me even message to know how i felt...i couldn't notice anyone while we had a relationship,i was fell in love blindly and couldn't see that everyday rows with him destroyed me inside,it's hard to cry everyday because your bf blame you for the thing you didn't make...and this is just the part of my suffering...anyway he is regreting now all the behaviours and asked me to give one more chance...but remembering all the pain i wish i didn't know him...i'm very scared and distrait at all...i'm just the ordinary girl and want to have untroubled relationship and simply kindly words from the person i love...is it so hard to understand?