I kind of laugh to myself?
When fat women that are genuinely fat more so than they are "curvy" tell me that they are just "curvy", I lol to myself. When fat women tell me that they are proud to be "curvy" I feel bad for them and lol to myself. When fat women tell me that they are proud of their curves and so glad that they are not "figureless" or "flat" or "skinny bones" like me, for some reason, it makes me feel more pity for them.
As I lol to myself.
Is it normal?
When fat women that are genuinely fat more so than they are "curvy" tell me that they are just "curvy", I lol to myself. When fat women tell me that they are proud to be "curvy" I feel bad for them and lol to myself. When fat women tell me that they are proud of their curves and so glad that they are not "figureless" or "flat" or "skinny bones" like me, for some reason, it makes me feel more pity for them.
As I lol to myself.
Is it normal?
- Homer Simpson.
e·mo·tion
noun /iˈmōSHən/
emotions, plural
A natural instinctive state of mind deriving from one's circumstances, mood, or relationships with others
- she was attempting to control her emotions
- his voice was low and shaky with emotion
Any of the particular feelings that characterize such a state of mind, such as joy, anger, love, hate, horror, etc
- fear had become his dominant emotion
Instinctive or intuitive feeling as distinguished from reasoning or knowledge
- responses have to be based on historical insight, not simply on emotion
Every now and then I want to tell them, "let's switch metabolisms for a few weeks and see how 'curvy' you are then".
But I'm not that mean. I don't say anything to their face. I don't wish to degrade anyone's self esteem. I just see it as amusing.
Its also pertinent to mention that fat people in general tend to piss me off. Not to the point of outright anger, but some are so pompous or in denial about being fat that its downright annoying.
-Ass&tits: Curvy
-Waist: Fat
-Both: Fat
It's not funny, right? And believe me, I can tell you right now, you have a coping mechanism that you employ yourself, be it humour, denial or using a nicer word to describe things.
The fact you seem to find laughing at other people as amusing makes me find you to be the pathetic one.
1. You don't have to outrun the polar bear, only the fat girl.
2. There's good eatin' on them buttocks.
3. Blubber is an excellent source of fuel for when you need to stay warm in an Arctic blizzard.
4. You can make her cross the ice first - if it supports her weight, it'll support yours.
5. She's easier for helicopters to spot.
And yeah, often times they do call me anorexic. And that makes it more amusing for me, considering that I have never brought up the issue of a woman's weight in conversation before. If you're going to use criticism as a "coping" mechanism to add to your arsenal then I'm going to have a little more of a laugh at it. And ya know what? God help me if no one takes any sort of amusement at all from the pathetic coping mechanisms that I employ every now and then.
Maybe I'm not laughing to your face.
Maybe I'm not laughing at all.
But as you're talking about how "curvy" you are, I am laughing a little on the inside.
So yeah, I guess I am the pathetic one. I'm pathetic from having that little personal joke to myself. In fact, ANYONE who can take humor from life without harming others is pathetic unless they take humor from what YOU find it right. In fact, when these women DO insult me as they often do, I shouldn't just laugh it off. I should thank them, because I am so pathetic and they have every right to insult me, even though I have no right to have a personal laugh at them. Makes perfect sense. They should be able to talk to others however they want because those poor things have a weight problem to cope with :( How did I not see this before? It must be great to be so morally perfect like you... God I admire you, insulting me for expressing my personal feelings. If only everyone was so morally conscious as you...
lol.
I'm going to sincerely apologize to you here. I did not think that you would get so upset about something this stupid. Yeah, I should not have attacked you for giving your opinion, but the fact of the matter is that you insulted me as a response to MY giving an opinion. If you don't want it done to yourself, then don't do it to someone else. If other people laugh at ME, that's fine. I can laugh at myself. I wouldn't be sane if I couldn't.
As for the stories, I have lived a short yet interesting life. They sound unbelievable? That's fine. I hardly believe some of them myself. So I come here to gain persepective on them. I post my stories here to gain perspective on things that have happened in my life that, at 20, I have yet to develop the wisdom and experience to comprehend.
That's the point of this website. To gain another person's perspective. If you have a problem with that, than I suggest you contact management and tell that that you have a problem with the way that they do things, not pull something stupid like go on my stories to try to "call them out".
I like to keep my stories public. When people look at my profile, they see them and hopefully they will find a question or story that they can give their perspective on, pure and simple.
I was just bustin' yer chops. I really had no idea that you would get so upset. I apologize, but I'm not going to take part in this argument any further. I asked my question on this website and you insulted me by calling me "pathetic" as a response. If that's how you're going to talk to people then learn to not get so upset with the consequences.
You started ranting about being morally superior. Basically if you can't take a differing opinion, don't ask a question, life is not going to please you with what you want to hear.
If you don't want to be insulted, learn to accept a differing opinion.
But thanks for trying to give me advice about this site, somehow I think I know what this site is for, I've been here long enough.
About your stories, well, I don't see how you can be comfortable laying yourself open for the IIN world to see, I guess to me, it seemed to be "woe betide me", whereas I prefer to deal with my issues quietly.
But when you apologize, the point is to say sorry and that's it, you don't add an essay onto the end of it with "she said, you did, I wanted". It nullifies the whole point.
That said, I accept it and I'm sorry for calling you names, I think I was exerting my inner hatred again on someone, which is a bad thing, I know.
MissSorel says:
No you wouldn't. People keep them anon so people don't know about them. You commented as anon here by the way, so how is that not bullshitting?
Logic, dear, logic.
MissSorel says:
See? You're still being a little brat. You keep being fake and I'll keep on being myself.
Have fun figuring out how to grow up.
(Really, you're going to call me out for actually "exposing" my real stories and "laying myself out in the open" and then say YOU are the one being real and I am fake? What is this, high school?)
MissSorel says:
By the way, your coping mechanism is pretending you don't care and acting sarcastic. Doesn't work babe.
MissSorel says:
Nah, not really, still think you're full of shit.
MissSorel says:
Because your stories are so varied and crappy, I don't believe a word of them.
And wow, you insulted me, I'm so hurt! GET OVER YOURSELF. You are nothing to me and oh, when did you get psychic?
Please, do yourself a favour and stop thinking you're hot shit when you're nothing.
MissSorel says:
Also, you got so defensive over someone disagreeing with you, how sensitive are you?
Grow up little girl.
MissSorel says:
Noob.
MissSorel says:
Why do you make a million stories up? LOL, you really are pathetic and look, there's your attitude again!
Maybe you should though, since I don't have to make a million stories up.
MissSorel says:
Wow... you make a lotta stores Neuro... figures LOL.
MissSorel says:
She's not real, check NeuroNeptunians profile...
These are all of the responses to me that you deleted. I pulled these from my e-mail. At this point, I think it is rather moot to state the irony in you telling me how I was the one that threw a fit and how I need to realize that life isn't going to please me about what I want to hear, especially considering that you felt the need to go post on my other stories too. Great job by the way. That provided me with a few minutes of entertainment before work.
And yes, you insulted me. That may be your "opinion", but you responded to my opinion with an insult when you called me pathetic. Maybe I should have been the bigger person and just said "Ok, you think that I am pathetic", but as I stated previously. If you are going to talk to someone in such a manner, don't be so surprised when they do it back to you.
"About your stories, well, I don't see how you can be comfortable laying yourself open for the IIN world to see, I guess to me, it seemed to be "woe betide me", whereas I prefer to deal with my issues quietly."
Awesome, but I already explained my reasoning behind posting these stories. Like I said. If you have a problem with people coming on this website to use it for what it is for, then you need to contact management and give THEM a piece of your mind. Not me.
In response to...
MissSorel says:
Oh my god... you just don't let up do you? Seriously, that's what you call an apology?
I apologised back and you go off on another rant? I take my apology back, go grow up.
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Oh my god no I don't. You proceeded to insult me within your "apology". But furthermore, I'm at work, I finished all of my assignments, I have to be here for another 3 hours, I don't take the internet very seriously and I'm bored.
But you're obviously getting upset about the things that I am saying so while I could go on about the irony of a 22 year old woman rage failing all over my story pages like a 14 year old girl and telling me that I need to grow up and stop throwing a fit, at this point I think that I am just going to be egging you on.
So I'll be my own guest here. It's a good thing you do not leave the house very often and don't work an occupation because otherwise, you'd be one of the angriest receptionists on the planet.
Quit taking the internet so seriously and I really hope your day gets better.
Really, you are deluded. Maybe you need to stop taking it so seriously and see when you're being trolled.
I apologized back and you still wouldn't let go of it. You need to get that looked at as well as the fact you seem to think making fun of people is good.
You weren't trolling.
But if that's how you wish to "employ your coping mechanism" I can't stop you.
Le butthurt.
You have problems, good luck with that.
Go die already.
Don't take what people tell you while you're trolling personally.
Good luck with that "trolling".
Really, you are deluded. Maybe you need to stop taking it so seriously and see when you're being trolled.
I apologized back and you still wouldn't let go of it. You need to get that looked at as well as the fact you seem to think making fun of people is good."
You apologized? Oh, my bad. I thought you you said you were trolling. Wait, you were trolling and you're telling me that I need to be looked at if I think making fun of people is good?
Ok, I have to stop this. Seriously. I'm just egging you on. Have fun with your... "trolling".
FUCK OFF.
"trollololololol".
Try again next time!
GROW UP! Least I'm a bitch with personality, you lack both attributes.
Go fall on a rusty spike.
You did.
I said sorry for what I did but no, you couldn't accept that.
I'm sorry that you can't accept an apology.
Have a nice day.
NOTE - the words I'm sorry. Look that was an apology!
And you better mean it.
Seriously, you were the one who posted an abortion link to a story about pregnancy, I'm meant to even have the faintest of respect for you? Nah.
Now get out of my face, you're making me ill with your try-hard attitude.
...don't answer that.
Quit taking the internet so seriously.
It laughs at them denying it, while they clearly are.
I remember this one time this severely obese girl called me anorexic. Harf harf It was a glorious moment, watching her smirk become a grimace. She was actually shocked, like she didn't know she was obese before my retort.
In other words I hate it when fat chicks throw shade.
We all have our idea of what is beautiful. Some people seek perfection and will never find it nor be happy. Others choose to live in denial, weigh 200 pounds or be 30% overweight which is the standard for morbidly obese and be ok with that.
We also have to recognize that as a society, obesity, or what some 250 lb folks in denial call "curvey ness" , is a price we ALL have to pay for., via taxes and higher health care . It's not healthy and it's costing us more than people are willing to admit.
the answer is LAYERS!
I almost laughed my ass off
Yeah, I feel the same way. A little fat can be seen as curvy, but if they're 250 pounds and higher than they're not curvy. It's like they're trying to justify their obesity by making it seem like something it isn't. It's a denial of their weight.
But it's not, because English is often a language not to be interpreted literally. Moving on.