Ok so i am 28 years old and am quite sure i have never been in love with anyone i have ever been with. i want nothing more in life than to be in love with someone. i have never even been with someone who knows what romance is. i feel like i should just give up and be stuck in my mediocre relationship... we may not be in love but atleast he's not horrible to me. why is it so hard for me to find/attract men that will truly love me? are good men really as elusive as they seem to be?