So i'm 18 years old and still a virgin. Most people assume i'm not a virgin because of the men that i date and the fact that i dont look like youre "typical virgin" which was a statement that a ex told me which got me really upset. But my question is, is it normal to be scared to have sex at my age? the thought just upsets me i'm scared about EVERYTHING like the pain, is it the right guy, STD's, the condom breaking. Every negative thought run through my head and i just tense up bad. i must admit that i'm glad i had the fear when i was younger because a large amount of guy has tried to sleep with me and i'm just happy i'm not 18 with like 20 partners. but i really love the guy i'm with and i want to take it to the next leave but i get so scared that i tense up. is that normal?