Ok, if girls are not into them, then they are shallow?
they seem to think this world is divided by two groups of people. the very attractive and the plain joes.
they claim personality is important while most of them have really bland personalities and self-esteem issues.
Not all women like bad boys. I think I like a man who can kind of stand out. Those who are on the attractive side tend to have this charm they are giving off to people. It's not so much about their looks anymore.However I've seen some people, they are what I would call "maybe a little bit attractive", but I find them cute. they have those perks in the ways they move and their personality that make them stand out, that attract girls to them (such as good humor, a style that really complements them,etc.)However, those self-proclaimed "nice guys" usually don't have anything. They think as long as they are "pretty inside ” they are fine while they are just plain inside. Sexual appeal and manliness is not only visual.
they seem to think this world is divided by two groups of people. the very attractive and the plain joes.
they claim personality is important while most of them have really bland personalities and self-esteem issues.
Not all women like bad boys. I think I like a man who can kind of stand out. Those who are on the attractive side tend to have this charm they are giving off to people. It's not so much about their looks anymore.However I've seen some people, they are what I would call "maybe a little bit attractive", but I find them cute. they have those perks in the ways they move and their personality that make them stand out, that attract girls to them (such as good humor, a style that really complements them,etc.)However, those self-proclaimed "nice guys" usually don't have anything. They think as long as they are "pretty inside ” they are fine while they are just plain inside. Sexual appeal and manliness is not only visual.
I have no problem with them going for douchebags, just don't think you're fooling anyone when you come up with the "I want a good guy" line when your history betrays your words.
That type of person is very unlikely to come along, just like "Ms. Perfect" is unlikely to come around.
A guy who tells every girl they see that they're a "nice guy" probably isn't one (maybe he's trying to manipulate you), and anyone who defines themselves by a single personality trait, such as being "nice", probably IS boring. Being nice and being interesting are not mutually exclusive. The real nice guys are not the ones who will self-proclaim it, they are the guys who show it by their actions, and those guys are the sort that usually have their own personalities as well.
Hmm, keep searching. I'm positive you will find someone you are attracted to and is also nice on the inside AND stands out from the crowd.
On the other side of this. Yes it true that the cool girls in school try to hang with the other good looking girls so they can all wear their skirts as high as they can and with caked on makeup and bleached hair dos. Oh and act like bitches all day!
Guess what, most girls grow out of this when they realize only the boys that want to bash them are attracted to them.
Just a little thing I've noticed over time.
MOST guys want a nice girl, who is also attractive (to them). Strangest thing ever!
being "nice" as in a good person, doesn't mean you have to look, act, talk, walk, and think like everyone else. i have a lot of freaky but nice friends. they're funny, sarcastic, opinionated, goth or punk usually, and very decent people. the fringe sets tend to lend themselves to more of that, i find.
I think different women want different things, but one thing that those women got in common (at least in my opinion, I might be wrong) is that they want a MAN, not a male, they want a man who knows what to do with her.
It doesn't mean she's butch or rough , some of the most feminine girls around are just tough and go for it in nature. Love that.