Let's be clear: I absolutely hate assholes in real life.
But when it comes to fictional characters, I tend to crush on the jerks. Like, if they were a real person and I entered into a relationship with them (friendship or romantic), they'd probably end up being extremely abusive. Manipulating me, continually insulting me, restraining me against my wishes, kidnapping me, and hell, maybe even murdering me.
IRL: gross, gross, gross. stay away you freak.
Fictional: sooooooooooo hot. i love you.
But when it comes to fictional characters, I tend to crush on the jerks. Like, if they were a real person and I entered into a relationship with them (friendship or romantic), they'd probably end up being extremely abusive. Manipulating me, continually insulting me, restraining me against my wishes, kidnapping me, and hell, maybe even murdering me.
IRL: gross, gross, gross. stay away you freak.
Fictional: sooooooooooo hot. i love you.

Although you may want to find someone who is nice but can pretend not to be. Gives you the best of both worlds.