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Is it normal to be attracted to older men?
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I'm really attracted to older guys. ages 30-47 i am in my teens. i have always been attracted to older guys. when i was fourteen i used to talk to this one older guy named bobby. we would kiss but that was about it because i was not ready for sex. i just feel very comfortable around them and like how sweet they are. my current friend that i talk too he is older and i really enjoy his company. we can go places together and people will just think he is my uncle but we are actually just friends. i'm 18 years old. i would love to have more older male friends. grey hair does not bother me at all either. i think it's cute. i am unsure when i started to be attracted to older guys. it just kind of happened one day. so now when i go to places i am extra sweet to the older men and smile at them but i roll my eyes at guys my age. i'm not attracted to boys my age at all. they are such a turn off. i know not all boys my age are not this way but most of them are too aggressive, too sexual,(don't get me wrong what 18 year old does not like sex, but all the time? that's all you want to talk about?) and too loud. they are always doing something noisy trying to get my attention when all it does is turn me off. i like older men. that won't change. i'm attracted to them right now and them only.
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Age is just a number,you're an adult and can be attracted to any man you want
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true that.
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You like us chiselled veterans more because we have more life experience and stability and most of us put the seat back down for you. Young boys just want to dip their underdeveloped penises into every pie on offer and they think it's hardcore to be a "playa". . .while older guys have semi-mastered the art of getting you to chase after us and sometimes play First Person Shooter games
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xfg40
Post your address.
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BIGFATCOCK
Many female teenagers seek older men in their 40's and 50's as father figures and sugar Daddy's because they have Daddy issues from an absent biological father in their lives.
They will even have sex { missionary , doggy style , anal , oral } with him to have a father figure in their lives and for them to be close together.
They love to have the Daddy and Daddy's little girl relationship.
If they are virgins or amateur's or novices , they ask him to teach her the ropes.
They ask him to go slow with her at first and break her in slowly.
If they have no clue , she asks him to show her his cock slowly , inch by inch and she says to just show her the head at first and let her get a glimpse of it and she says she has heard that males have balls that are connected to the cock that holds the cum.
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I like this
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BIGFATCOCK
@: Ad3to
Does it sound good to you ?
OK , can we hookup ?
Do you like older men ?
Can you relocate to live with an older man ?
Have you ever seen a naked male cock and nut sack in person ?
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I'm in my early 40s, and regularly pick up the younger women who work at sports bar I go to. They're usually around 21, 22, but, I've gone as young as 19. Took an 18 year old home one night (her house, not mine), but she wasn't feeling well, so nothing happened.

I've found that these young women go for guys like me due to our experience, knowing how to treat them, no drama, and knowing that sex can be kept to just sex. No flowers on their car, crying on the phone, online stalking.. Just a good fucking, then we're ok until next time.

Most are not after money, although I have helped a few here and there. Hot little hostess girl, all of 20, had her ex take her car for repairs so he could keep it, then skipped town. She needed her car back, so, I paid the service place for the repairs and to let it go. She also likes getting her nails done, so, I offered and she had them done. For me.

To be honest..I have no plans on stopping with these younger women. If they get boyfriends, I just move on to the next one.
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@: Jayemen
what do you look like? just curious.
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Decent-looking guy, I think. Maybe hint better than average, but wouldn't say studly. Think what does it for me is, I'm a nice guy, up-front, and not a player like guys their own ages are. I'm easy to talk to, a good listener, and, have have experiences they haven't, so can talk them through things.

Been told I have green eyes, but, they're brown. One said they change colors. I dunno..Guess I'm ok, but certainly not a buff stud of 22.
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I can understand your thought pattern and it is telling me that you wish to be with an older man because they could teach you all about life in a more sedate way. I am sure you would welcome the opportunity of having such man as your partner and lover.
Is that what you really want?
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It is fine for you to be attracted to whoever you want but unless you really are willing and able to skip the social development cycle, you're going to find it difficult over time. For example, most people feel the need to acquire things over time, and then they find themselves with a giant pile of junk in their 30s or 40s and finally realize it's just a giant pile of junk and they abandon most of it. Similarly, most young people need to go through the making-friends/losing-friends cycle many times before realizing that happiness can't be found solely in friendships, and that friends can be replaced no matter how harsh that sounds.

Now, let's say you find some mid 40s guy you like. He likes his friends but he's not obsessed. He sees hot cars and big houses and shrugs. He's been to a few places and doesn't get overly excited about travel, although he's open to it when needed or useful. In fact, he doesn't get overly excited about anything at all. He's already lived a bit. He's also pretty set in his ways and hard to convince about any new ideas. You on the other hand are probably wide-eyed and wonder-struck by most of these things. You're probably also willing to try new things if you're like most young people. You're both at different ends of the life cycle and it's hard to imagine it working well for long.
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@: surrey
ive dated an older guy before, my ex. we broke up because of relocation. all the things you listed i am aware of. and i am not materialistic. if you read one of my other post i shop at the thrift store most of he time. i like simple things; hiking, swimming, and watching documentaries.
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This is absolutely normal and natural. Most young women are attracted to qualities such as wisdom, maturity, intelligence, self-respect, and confidence. Young guys are insecure and unconfident and it shows in their behavior, constantly trying to get attention and validate their supposed manliness. Whereas older men are prime example of true classy gentlemen in the ways they talk, walk, act, and feel.
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i like your responses to me. they are rational and simple. and true that to what you said.
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It's very normal, I dated a guy who was in his 40's when I was 21 and I'm now married to a man who is 58. I have 2 stepchildren one who is 30 (I'm 32 btw) and one who is 25 along with a daughter of our own who is 3. The only hard part is the beginning of a relationship where people think that all you want is money even though you are madly in love with him, but that phase was easier for my husband and I because when we started our relationship I already had a good paying job.
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Totally normal. I am a guy. And my first boyfriend was TWICE my age... The experience, the tenderness, the validation... it all makes sense. Plus he was absolutely GORGEOUS. :) Good for you. Just be careful.
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dale090898
I prefer to fuck a dog with a bit of age
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Yes me too. My boyfriend when I was 17 was 31 and now I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 26. Not that much of a difference but older men do focus more on giving pleasure than receiving it. This is why I prefer them.
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peterrabbyt4
I am 67 and I can get women half my age to fuck me and enjoy it immensely. I like the odd guy too.
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KingKongDingDong
It's normal for some but not for me since I am an older guy and I'm not into elderly males! (Only the ladies at the home need to apply - haha). You are a bit older than I am typically attracted to and that some causes problems but I try not too discriminate since that is illegal but you should it in mind to keep your back door open for your uncle since you don't want to make a baby that you can't tell if is your child or nephew/niece!!
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I've always been into older guys. I think it's perfectly normal.
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BIGFATCOCK
How old are you and how old do you like your men ?
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I'm attracted to older men and I don't have daddy issues.
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Of course it is. We're top quality!
:o)
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Well, there you have it. Your post says it all. Learn to give top quality oral sex by watching instructional videos on redtube-dot-com, unzip your friend, and make him feel good.
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yes being a gold digger is normal.
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i don't need someone else's money that is what my job is for. and if hard times comes that is what parents are for, support.
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what do you do for a job?
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You are vulgar and not funny.
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