Okay so all my life(I'm 19)I've been too shy to flirt and basically hint a guy that I like him. So what I do is I just imagine like how it would happen. Now don't get crazy..it's not some crazy sex fantasy. Lol. Basically I just picture how our conversation can start. Like if I wore a band T shirt and he noticed or if we share a class then bump into eachother at the store. I am so lame I even think about what our conversations can be about and even try to think of some clever and fun responses. Spare me the insults. HaHa I know how pathetic I may sound. Anyway when the guy doesn't follow through with my "plans" I get sad and dissapointed even though I knew deep down it wasn't ever going to happen. Lol. Anyway is it normal that I get sad when this happens and still don't try to learn how to flirt and open up to guys?? I'm so lame! Lol.